Around 20 years ago, I had the opportunity to listen to a member of Nasdaq top management talk about the stock market. It's all a _tiny_ bit blurry, being a long time ago, but I remember how he talked about three different perspectives for investing in stock: First, the "company perspective". An investor would buy stock in a company they believed in. Maybe they had good products, or good management, or something else…
You start out with the naive mindset, thinking you can make money by finding strong undervalued companies and investing in them with stocks/LEAPS.
Then when you've lost enough money trying that, you move on to technical analysis, thinking you can time the momentum and price action of "predictable" securities. Still thinking it's the "market" you're trying to figure out.
Then once you've lost enough money trying that, it finally hits you. I've been the sucker all along! The way you make money at this is by realizing it's all a game that you're playing against other individual people, not some abstract "market". You buy lots of the underlying stock of something that's trending and start selling OTM "lottery ticket" contracts to the hapless fools (of which you used to be), and you finally start winning.