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I haven't touched an ORM in over 6 years, but unless they've improved since then, I honestly can't think of a single reason why anyone would choose to use one. They're clunky monstrosities that act only as guard-rails for inexperienced developers. Far better to invest a few days (which is realistically all you need) to improve their SQL skills and/or code-review practices.
Yes, things like setString(1, “asd”) and conversely getInt(2) are so beautiful and will never introduce mistakes /s ORMs are there for mapping objects and well, relations. Most ORMs provide additional features, but at the core they can, and for more complicated queries they should be used with native SQL queries. They are made for OLTP not for OLAP
There are "simple ORMs" that only map results of SQL queries to objects. They do not provide a magic query API - which is the source of most problems. I don't do Python, but for .NET there is Dapper https://github.com/StackExchange/Dapper, you can have a look what I mean. You write the SQL query, explicitly execute it, the library maps the results of that query into objects (it's C#, so you have to declare the class. In Python I'd imagine it would create the object for you)