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Re: I Miss My Bar

#11

I miss being spontaneous about going out. I’m not even sure what restaurants are still open, what bars have gone out of business, why can’t we return to normal already?

It's a great opportunity for non-commercial spontaneity, choosing not between "what bar to go to", but which direction to walk in, and really taking in reality.

This is illegal in my country.

Re: I Miss My Bar

#14

I miss being spontaneous about going out. I’m not even sure what restaurants are still open, what bars have gone out of business, why can’t we return to normal already?

It's a great opportunity for non-commercial spontaneity, choosing not between "what bar to go to", but which direction to walk in, and really taking in reality.

Yeah but you can't meet strangers. We're all bubbled in. And I love my friends, they're my pillar of peace in this pandemic, but there is a different part of me that craves the interaction with strangers in strange places.

Re: I Miss My Bar

#15
post #11

Earlier quoted context omitted.

It's a great opportunity for non-commercial spontaneity, choosing not between "what bar to go to", but which direction to walk in, and really taking in reality.

This is illegal in my country.

My condolences on your loss of freedom.

May you find a way to move about freely in the near future.

Re: I Miss My Bar

#16
post #3

It's cool. I wish I could be happy. But for me, this sort of thing just sends me further into a deep depression. It ain't right. Pictures of food don't fix hunger. I hope that we snap out of all of this soon. Writing these comments, just to leave a log, in case someone cares, if it all goes wrong. I miss having the ability to miss. Having the feeling that others exist. Right now I feel that other people stopped exist…

And some of us have been cooped up with spouse and kids for almost a year. When I get a little alone time I'm especially grateful.

Still, I'd love to go to this bar! Or the pub down the street.

Re: I Miss My Bar

#17
post #3

It's cool. I wish I could be happy. But for me, this sort of thing just sends me further into a deep depression. It ain't right. Pictures of food don't fix hunger. I hope that we snap out of all of this soon. Writing these comments, just to leave a log, in case someone cares, if it all goes wrong. I miss having the ability to miss. Having the feeling that others exist. Right now I feel that other people stopped exist…

And some of us have been cooped up with spouse and kids for almost a year. When I get a little alone time I'm especially grateful. Still, I'd love to go to this bar! Or the pub down the street.

The way things are going at the moment, I'll have to emigrate to somewhere "sane" like Belarus in order to even meet another person.

Re: I Miss My Bar

#19
Maybe it's the rural setup where I'm from, but I'm glad that in 2020 and 2021 I barely visited bars. Summer was spent by lakes and forests, drinking beers, cocktails, appetizers, and eating freshly grilled BBQ for a fraction of the price, having quality time in the sun with friends.

I don't miss commercial society, I don't miss their tropes and their rituals. Fake friendship and banter from people hanging around to get some of my money in exchange of half a glass of ice and a dribble of liquor.

Bonus annoyance this year: the eternal covid lamentations of bar and restaurant owners, as if governments purposely wanted to destroy their businesses, as if one's bar is more important than other people lives, as if they didn't paint themselves and their stupid restaurant for years as an example of entrepreneurship (apparently the free market is a good idea only when your business goes well).

To hell with paid service, picnics and aperitivi in the main square with cheap liquor and (honestly) friendly smiles.

"I command this dump to wither, board its doors and windows forever" as Dan Feeder says.

Re: I Miss My Bar

#20

I miss being spontaneous about going out. I’m not even sure what restaurants are still open, what bars have gone out of business, why can’t we return to normal already?

There's no normal, there's only what you create now
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