Might as well refer to TechEmpower benchmarks. https://www.techempower.com/benchmarks/
just.js (#9) looks interesting https://github.com/just-js/just It seems to be a much tinier JavaScript runtime than Node.js (still using v8), but linux only The benchmark is probably unrealistically optimized code but even so, it implies Node.js itself has a large performance overhead
If you pay attention you'll notice that just.js is using postgres as their DB, while all of the node benchmarks are handicapped by either using mongoose/mongodb or MySQL.
There is no node benchmark with postgres, but all of the fastest benchmarks used it.
"lithium" is a good example to show how much of an impact switching to postgres has. All of the 4 lithium benchmarks are identical except in what DB they use.
The results are: lithium-postgres-batch (#2 - 659850), lithium-postgres-beta (#13 - 398773), lithium-postgres (#14 - 398258), lithium (#45 - 271989). The last result is MySQL.