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Top 5 Regrets People Make on their Deathbed

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Re: Top 5 Regrets People Make on their Deathbed

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isn't there a kind of statistical / informational bias here? you can simplify the trade-off between work and pleasure as one where you need to work enough, earlier in life, to survive for some some unpredictable amount, later in life. so when you're making the decision about how much to work, and how much to play, you have incomplete data - you don't know when you will die. but when you are dying, you do have that da…

Most of these people would have defined benefit plans, so they get the same monthly stipend whether they live to 66 or 99.

For people on defined contribution plans, they can get a Life Annuity.

Re: Top 5 Regrets People Make on their Deathbed

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I'd like to say that I'm surprised by the lack of introspection and thoughtfulness that I'm reading in these comments, but instead I'm just disappointed. Perhaps most people here are just too busy living in the hubristic stage of their life to imagine that there's anything to be gained by occasionally listening to the wisdom of those who've gone before us.

Agreed. 9/10 posters are intent on disproving the article in one way or another, rather than actually learning something from it.

"Critiquing articles on HN" likely isn't something they'll look favorably upon years from now.

Re: Top 5 Regrets People Make on their Deathbed

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I'd like to say that I'm surprised by the lack of introspection and thoughtfulness that I'm reading in these comments, but instead I'm just disappointed. Perhaps most people here are just too busy living in the hubristic stage of their life to imagine that there's anything to be gained by occasionally listening to the wisdom of those who've gone before us.

Agreed. 9/10 posters are intent on disproving the article in one way or another, rather than actually learning something from it. "Critiquing articles on HN" likely isn't something they'll look favorably upon years from now.

Frankly, neither is most stuff we do on the internet...

Re: Top 5 Regrets People Make on their Deathbed

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I'm not very sure that deathbed regrets are a good indication of how to live, or even of what was truly important in people's lives.

Vaguely related, I used to have days when right before falling asleep I had some regrets about the day, like having wasted time.

Nowadays I tell myself to STFU and just go to sleep, because I know that next morning I'll realize how ridiculous and sentimental these kinds of regrets are.

When you die, there is no next morning. I think and hope that when my time comes, the only regret I have will be that there is no next morning.

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