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> The whole thing is just about arrow composition! There's much much more to it. For example, a version of the yoneda lemma also holds for metric spaces (instead of a set of arrows between to things, you simply have a number indicating a distance between two things). Here's how I like to think about the yoneda lemma: If you have some kind of objects you want to talk about, one way to do this is by relating these obje…
> a number indicating a distance between two things That *is* a arrow. Arrow composition is adding up the distance along a path.
I think the other poster meant "elements in the set of morphisms" when they said "arrows".
The difference is the following: Metric spaces "are" categories enriched over the real numbers, ordinary categories are categories enriched over the category of sets. So in one case the morphism objects are sets while in the other case they are real numbers. "Arrows" then refers to something internal to the morphism object. The distance (a real number) between two points in a metric space does not have any internal structure.