Options are effectively Zero Sum - meaning that whoever is on the other side of the contract is predicting the opposite of whatever you're thinking. Successful long-term options traders don't trade options 'directionally' (like buying 50K of GME calls), they manage a whole portfolio of options, and then take directional portfolio risk. This is sort of like diversifying, then running risk analysis, then figuring out w…
None of what you say seems to change anything about how a regular investor looks at an option as - it's just a magnifying glass on how much you can make or loose by betting on a stock. Either you get lucky or you are actually insightful in some stocks, that's the edge you have (if any) over the career traders who don't want to rely on this luck to make their money.