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How do we make it less scary?
Start working on your own alternative platform. You, as a hacker, have a responsibility to your community, family, friends, to build an alternative platform for them. If you refuse this responsibility, you are failing your own family and community, and leaving them to suffer all the consequences. You can't realistically tell your family to quit Service X, no matter how fucking bad it is, unless you're willing to prov…
How are you going to teach yourself to acquire music licensing agreements that still allow you to run a profitable service at scale?
Given the money at stake and the number of people who could technically build such a service, what makes you believe that the problem is a lack of willpower or know-how?