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I see this bike-shedding comment about the language choice for the reference Matrix server implementation in every single post about Matrix on Hackernews. Every. Single One. Millions of people use Matrix. It has been adopted by the French civil service, several German states, and the German armed forces. In a previous post I saw someone saying that American Airlines was looking at adopting Matrix for their employees.…
Its a valid comment. I tried to run synapse on a reasonable VM and it was unusably slow. Essentially you either use the main server or you are a large org that can pay for a powerful machine to run it. The average person can not run a matrix server.
Please don't repeat falsehoods like this. The average person can not run anything because software is black magic to them. If you meant the average knowledgeable computer engineer (or similar, as opposed to a large org), then you are simply wrong.
I'm running a Synapse instance for ~25 people (friends and family). We are federated and joined to many large rooms. Synapse is using about 400-600M memory (RSS, varies depending on circumstances) and about 8-10% CPU. This is all on a 2 core Hetzner VPS which costs less than 20 USD per month.