What people forget is all the natural junk up there. Space is not "clean". Something like 100 tons of rock, mostly dust, falls onto earth from space every day. That isn't stuff in orbit, but given the capture effects of our moon there is likely a significant amount that does achieve some sort of stability. That amount probably outweighs everything we have ever put up there. https://astronomy.com/magazine/ask-astro/20…
But there's an enormous difference between cosmic dust, which generally doesn't pose any threat to satellites or spacecraft, and the man-made "junk" that are essentially destructive whizzing bullets, cannonballs, and worse. The total mass is essentially irrelevant, what matters is the mass of individual objects. > Or, at least they are in orbits where danger from natural debris is vastly greater than from space junk.…
There are plenty of sats that have just stopped working, even broken apart, for unknown reasons. Telling the difference between a defect and a meteor impact is mostly impossible. Lots of spacecraft have just stopped working for unknown reasons. Until we start inspecting every failed satellite, as we do aircraft, we won't really know.
And note where the 2009 collision happened: over the arctic. This was one polar orbit colliding with a near-polar orbit, right in the danger zone I mentioned above.