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Six months salary is what I'd always aimed for. I managed that well until recently. Now it hurts.
I read your other posts and hope you are able to work toward better days sooner than later. I have to wonder though - if you hadn't been prudent before everything happened, how much worse off would you be now? Something of a rhetorical question, of course :)
Many don't have $2,000 for a rainy day
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Re: Many don't have $2,000 for a rainy day
#122Re: Many don't have $2,000 for a rainy day
#123I think it's very important to instill saving behaviors early on in your adult life. After graduating college, I had plenty of debt, but still made sure I was putting money into a savings account. Technically, it would have been much wiser to put any excess money towards 15% APR credit card debt than in 5% saving accounts (5% savings accounts did exist for a few years prior to the 2008 collapse), but actually having…
I think it's very important to instill saving behaviors early on in your adult life. Why early in your adult life? People should begin saving as children. My parents were sensible. I got my first bank account at the age of five, I think. They paid me some small amount of pocket money (two dollars a week?), and encouraged me to save it up to buy things I wanted, and to worship the magic of compound interest (it helps…
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You're looking at it from a middle class perspective. Unfortunately, most of these people are also deep in debt and have already made such cuts. This is the byproduct of double digit unemployment as much as anything. As much as we talk about consumption, most of it is at the middle class level. Now, I've seen poor people make very bad decisions, but many are on purchases you and I would make without a second thought.…
Unfortunately, most of these people are also deep in debt and have already made such cuts. Sometimes I wonder about this. How many poor folks are wasting their limited budget on frivolous crap? One reality show I really would like to see would be about a sensible financial advice type who parachutes into the lives of low-income, deeply-in-debt people and shows them how to budget properly.
It is horrible and sad but the reality is there really is no helping some people...
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Does having a credit card count? What if someone has a $5k debt on a credit card, and only $1k in savings? Should they prioritize getting more cash into a low-interest savings account, while racking up interest on the CC?
this is how i typically recommend people to prioritize their money: (1) pay your bills (2) get a small emergency fund together (enough to pay for a small emergency, car breakdown, 1 month's living expenses, etc) (3) pay down high interest debt (credit cards, etc) (4) get a large emergency fund together (enough to support you for a few months if you lose your job, major emergency, etc) (5) invest and pay down low inte…
If you lose your job, it may take quite a few months to find a new one.
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Don't be embarrassed. Many "rich" people have similar problems. It's just that, in their case, the cash flow figures are larger by orders of magnitude. Desperation can be a tremendous motivator, and a great way to set priorities. Think of yourself as a newly-arrived immigrant. Now make your way in your new world. Whatever you do, don't let depression set in. Depression = failure. Even if you struggle to pay the bills…
> Depression = failure Just to clarify, depression (mostly) leads to failure. Depression doesn't define you as a failure.
Depression did set in for a while, which is why I allowed myself to get stuck with the unsatisfying job. "Work is work, right?"
I've since kicked the depression from everything that happened in those few years and am feeling great. I can finally see where I need to be and the path to get there... so that feels good. :)
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Unfortunately, most of these people are also deep in debt and have already made such cuts. Sometimes I wonder about this. How many poor folks are wasting their limited budget on frivolous crap? One reality show I really would like to see would be about a sensible financial advice type who parachutes into the lives of low-income, deeply-in-debt people and shows them how to budget properly.
One reality show I would really like to see would be about sending entitled people into low income neighborhoods so we can all watch them realize just how hard working some people are and just how well most people manage their money. Maybe then they'd stop saying misinformed stuff like "all that person really needs is someone to help them with a budget." A budget helps you cut excess spending. There's not a lot of sp…
That would indeed be interesting if it were true, regardless of your snarkiness. I'd be interested in seeing a show just like that regardless of how it works out.
Re: Many don't have $2,000 for a rainy day
#128Earlier quoted context omitted.
Unfortunately, most of these people are also deep in debt and have already made such cuts. Sometimes I wonder about this. How many poor folks are wasting their limited budget on frivolous crap? One reality show I really would like to see would be about a sensible financial advice type who parachutes into the lives of low-income, deeply-in-debt people and shows them how to budget properly.
One reality show I would really like to see would be about sending entitled people into low income neighborhoods so we can all watch them realize just how hard working some people are and just how well most people manage their money. Maybe then they'd stop saying misinformed stuff like "all that person really needs is someone to help them with a budget." A budget helps you cut excess spending. There's not a lot of sp…
Re: Many don't have $2,000 for a rainy day
#129Re: Many don't have $2,000 for a rainy day
#130Earlier quoted context omitted.
this is how i typically recommend people to prioritize their money: (1) pay your bills (2) get a small emergency fund together (enough to pay for a small emergency, car breakdown, 1 month's living expenses, etc) (3) pay down high interest debt (credit cards, etc) (4) get a large emergency fund together (enough to support you for a few months if you lose your job, major emergency, etc) (5) invest and pay down low inte…
I'd extend that emergency fund to more than a "few" months worth as soon as possible. If you lose your job, it may take quite a few months to find a new one.