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Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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I can't quite put my finger on how to define "this" but it seems like stories like "this" have been replacing stories of drive and grit in our cultural lore. It's en vogue now to talk about "doing nothing" or making it sound normal that you need to hire someone you don't know to accompany you to visit the hospital, etc. I am sure this is a part of the human experience but is it really a part we need to normalize, ver…

Japan has a stronger culture of people being ok not chasing great wealth. You don't need to be at the top, Japan or otherwise. It won't make you happy.

Being at the bottom might be nice to avoid though.

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A friendly reminder that Japan's rent-a-family industry was completely fake: https://newrepublic.com/article/160595/new-yorker-japan-rent... Everyone loves stories about how weird Japan is (especially the Japanese), so these stories should be taken with a grain of salt.

I noticed this effect on me after years of living in Europe. The perception of Japanese culture / society I had from before I moved to Europe was quite different (these phenomena are to some extent well-known but not an obsession). Now I fear my understanding of all things Japanese is a little bit off (or at least diverged) from my peers in my country.

Your perception of Japan changed after you moved to Europe [from another country]? Fascinating, can you expand on that?

Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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Note: for many of the "weird" things you list, there's _one_ place doing it, not several, like the use of plural may suggest (AFAIK).

Such as which example? I have knowledge of the existence of multiple in almost all of what I listed.

Used underwear vending machine, last I heard, there's only one. Yaoi cafe, AFAIK, there's only one. And I would be surprised if there's more than one cafe with the glass floor and no underwear.

Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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> Firstly, love hotels are a sign of not being lonely. My observation from travel is that love hotels are a sign of multigenerational housing. Young adults need somewhere to go without their parents watching.

In my home country you can rent actual apartments in completely normal buildings by the hour or by the night. Everyone knows for what purpose. They're actually cheaper and nicer than hotels, so if you're not icky, it's a cheap way to stay in the country ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Fascinating, which country is that? Do you just walk in and say that you'd like to rent a room for 2 hours? (These questions make it sound like I want to use this service, but I'm just interested to hear about this concept, lol)

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A friendly reminder that Japan's rent-a-family industry was completely fake: https://newrepublic.com/article/160595/new-yorker-japan-rent... Everyone loves stories about how weird Japan is (especially the Japanese), so these stories should be taken with a grain of salt.

> Japan's rent-a-family industry was completely fake It is very real: ファミリーロマンス社【家族レンタル】家族代行・代理ならファミリーレンタル専門 https://family-romance.com/family.html 「他人になりきる」代行サービスが人気博す「叱ってほしい」という依頼も https://news.livedoor.com/article/detail/19410877/

Note that Family Romance is the company GP's article is about. It may not be entirely fake, but the stories that made the news were. (and both your links are about that company)

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We need a new name for this kind of fallacy/bias. It's not new, but more potent and prevalent than ever. Only saucy stories get told, so we think it's all sauce.

Marinara bias?

works for me

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post #183

The title reminds me of the Japanese strip Rent-a-Girlfriend , and how much it, and several similar ideas coming from Japan seem to express how lonely many of it's citizens might be feeling. Japanese commerce seems to have found a rather big market into treating loneliness. From the existence of Host Clubs, bars where the menu is not only food, but a good conversation with one's designated “host” as well, to cafés w…

I eat this stuff up as a constantly lonely person, not in the "I wish I had a boyfriend" sense, in the "theres nobody to talk to, ever" sense. Like you get up, you work, you consume entertainment, maybe you go on HN or Reddit or Twitter or whatever and you throw words out that other people filter through like junk food, maybe you even go so far to join a fan community for something for a week or two and talk about it…

> I eat this stuff up as a constantly lonely person, not in the "I wish I had a boyfriend" sense, in the "theres nobody to talk to, ever" sense.

Yes, a great deal of it is indeed nonromantic.

Welcome to the N.H.K. is what I would consider a different beast from Rent-a-Girlfriend what I've seen about it, though I haven't read it, and indeed more so describes your version of escapism from excessive capitalism and social and financial duties, whereas R.a.G. seems to mostly be escapism from loneliness by lack of social aptitude.

Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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> Japan's rent-a-family industry was completely fake It is very real: ファミリーロマンス社【家族レンタル】家族代行・代理ならファミリーレンタル専門 https://family-romance.com/family.html 「他人になりきる」代行サービスが人気博す「叱ってほしい」という依頼も https://news.livedoor.com/article/detail/19410877/

Note that Family Romance is the company GP's article is about. It may not be entirely fake, but the stories that made the news were. (and both your links are about that company)

Yes, it is the company cited in the article. It is very real and provides very real services:

How to Rent Friends in Japan https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jag6iyrSjsI

Rental families to heal lonely souls in Japan https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OURBpPLewoU

We Rented A Girlfriend In Japan https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dLBNO33bMX0

Behind Japan's Fake-Family Industry https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UEhYMirs7fk

Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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Such as which example? I have knowledge of the existence of multiple in almost all of what I listed.

Used underwear vending machine, last I heard, there's only one. Yaoi cafe, AFAIK, there's only one. And I would be surprised if there's more than one cafe with the glass floor and no underwear.

Well, you seem to be wrong about all three:

https://livejapan.com/en/in-tokyo/in-pref-tokyo/in-ikebukuro...

This article reviews three different boy's love cafés, in close proximity to one another.

I'm not sure how derive the conclusion that there is only one used underwear vending machine; a simple image search reveals many different models:

https://www.techinasia.com/japan-used-panty-vending-machines...

This article concludes that the most extreme stories about one at every corner are an exaggeration, but one can definitely find them.

As for the cafés without underwear: there is definitely more than one, though they've been on a decline.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No-pan_kissa

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