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'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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A friendly reminder that Japan's rent-a-family industry was completely fake: https://newrepublic.com/article/160595/new-yorker-japan-rent... Everyone loves stories about how weird Japan is (especially the Japanese), so these stories should be taken with a grain of salt.

Yeah if you just read all these articles about Japan, you'd think that all young men beat off to hentai all day at their parent's home, and that everyone is visiting "love hotels", or buys used panties from vending machines. The media loves to spin up an image of Japan to naive westerners by exaggerating its quirks. It reminds me of HN. If you read HN too much, you might think that you can only write applications in…

I also think Kpop's influence is also exaggerated but I won't argue against it's popularity amongst the young female/some male crowd.

It's like when a Kpop/Kdrama fan approaches me expecting me to know all of the pop culture when in my experience most Koreans simply consider BTS to be like Justin Bieber.

Imagine if people from Japan starts asking you if you watch Justin Bieber sing and then getting offended when you speak the truth. This is exactly what people in Korea and Japan are going through but you will almost never see them express it but its getting extreme in some situations like below:

https://www.reddit.com/r/korea/comments/gxa6qr/this_girl_mak...

Here you can see her physically harassing Korean men by hugging them or trying to kiss them. It's getting to the point where Western women are fetishizing Korean men similar to how Asian women are often fetishized by foreigners (not through popular culture but mainly through pornography).

Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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post #128

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BBC loves to fetishize Weird Japan. I know where you come from, but from what I’ve seen this one checks out as western.

How many languages do you speak to confirm this idea? Do you speak Pashto enough to know that Afghanistan does not take the crown in this, for instance? Do you speak Danish enough to know that Denmark also participates?

First you say "western" usually means the US, someone disagrees and now you demand they speak Pashto and Danish? Come on.

Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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> Yeah if you just read all these articles about Japan, you'd think that all young men beat off to hentai all day at their parent's home, and that everyone is visiting "love hotels", or buys used panties from vending machines. Firstly, love hotels are a sign of not being lonely. They do not offer a prostitute; those batteries are not included Secondly, I do not gain the impression from that that all do it, merely tha…

> Firstly, love hotels are a sign of not being lonely. My observation from travel is that love hotels are a sign of multigenerational housing. Young adults need somewhere to go without their parents watching.

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Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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post #128

Earlier quoted context omitted.

BBC loves to fetishize Weird Japan. I know where you come from, but from what I’ve seen this one checks out as western.

How many languages do you speak to confirm this idea? Do you speak Pashto enough to know that Afghanistan does not take the crown in this, for instance? Do you speak Danish enough to know that Denmark also participates?

You are a "quirky" fella to say the least. I think you would feel at home in "Japan"

Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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Yeah if you just read all these articles about Japan, you'd think that all young men beat off to hentai all day at their parent's home, and that everyone is visiting "love hotels", or buys used panties from vending machines. The media loves to spin up an image of Japan to naive westerners by exaggerating its quirks. It reminds me of HN. If you read HN too much, you might think that you can only write applications in…

We need a new name for this kind of fallacy/bias. It's not new, but more potent and prevalent than ever. Only saucy stories get told, so we think it's all sauce.

Marinara bias?

Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

How many languages do you speak to confirm this idea? Do you speak Pashto enough to know that Afghanistan does not take the crown in this, for instance? Do you speak Danish enough to know that Denmark also participates?

First you say "western" usually means the US, someone disagrees and now you demand they speak Pashto and Danish? Come on.

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Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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I can't quite put my finger on how to define "this" but it seems like stories like "this" have been replacing stories of drive and grit in our cultural lore. It's en vogue now to talk about "doing nothing" or making it sound normal that you need to hire someone you don't know to accompany you to visit the hospital, etc. I am sure this is a part of the human experience but is it really a part we need to normalize, ver…

I think there is another level to what this guy is doing that's hard to see if you just believe what he says about himself on its face. I feel like to be able to listen to and or be with someone while they do whatever and have no judgement, criticism, or suggestion requires you to have a very high level of Zen. I would probably want to correct or assist or do something in most situations. He's operating on the level of a therapist. But it's hard for people to admit sometimes that they need a therapist. There is a stigma and a feeling like there is something wrong with you that you have to get over just to ask for a therapist. This guy skips over all of that resistance by having, by all appearances, no ego at all. He's saying 'I don't have any skills so I can't possibly criticize you'. But having no skills doesn't stop most people from making suggestions or being critical. He is providing high value assistance to people and presenting himself in such a humble way that it's easy to ask for his help.

Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

#149
post #18

A friendly reminder that Japan's rent-a-family industry was completely fake: https://newrepublic.com/article/160595/new-yorker-japan-rent... Everyone loves stories about how weird Japan is (especially the Japanese), so these stories should be taken with a grain of salt.

Yeah if you just read all these articles about Japan, you'd think that all young men beat off to hentai all day at their parent's home, and that everyone is visiting "love hotels", or buys used panties from vending machines. The media loves to spin up an image of Japan to naive westerners by exaggerating its quirks. It reminds me of HN. If you read HN too much, you might think that you can only write applications in…

Reading HN comments yesterday I learned that if I can't quickly devise an algorithm to lay out stars evenly on a flag, I'm worse than programmers in training.

Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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Yeah if you just read all these articles about Japan, you'd think that all young men beat off to hentai all day at their parent's home, and that everyone is visiting "love hotels", or buys used panties from vending machines. The media loves to spin up an image of Japan to naive westerners by exaggerating its quirks. It reminds me of HN. If you read HN too much, you might think that you can only write applications in…

> you might think that you can only write applications in Rust and Go using K8s, no JavaScript but Typescript only Pff. Everyone knows Haskell, Idris and Elixir are acceptable, too.

once you've started on Idris you've crossed the line over from kinky to deviancy

source: there are several people in my weekly support group for exactly this reason, it gets out of control

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