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Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

On a second read that sentence became even funnier.

My humor-detector is going wild, but I can't figure out the joke(s). I really hope I just need more coffee.

For me the two meanings are:

*having someone by your side makes a task easier.

*they get a relative boost because I'm so terrible.

Anyone see additional meanings?

(edited for formatting and to add question)

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Can you tell us more about how you’ve been using this service?

GP is being humorous, and cracking a joke about consulting companies and their productivity.

most people would get downvoted for that. GP seems to be special :-)

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A friendly reminder that Japan's rent-a-family industry was completely fake: https://newrepublic.com/article/160595/new-yorker-japan-rent... Everyone loves stories about how weird Japan is (especially the Japanese), so these stories should be taken with a grain of salt.

Has anyone found this guy's Twitter handle? That would be one way to check the story. Probably easier for a Japanese speaker to locate.

Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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Without assuming too much about the veracity of this story, it still addresses a fundamental human need.

Humans, more than any other animals live in an imagined reality. Once food & shelter are taken care of, one’s dependence on nature (physical reality) has been disintermediated. This, our direct experience is primarily imagined abstract reality (friends/family, employment, society, the act of purchasing/consuming, etc).

Especially if one gets socially isolated in this world, it’s very easy to decouple one’s notion of reality from others in subtle ways. To be seen, have one’s perspective acknowledged and to be sincerely “touched” by another person (in a deeper metaphorical sense) is therefore one of the strongest human needs.

On the path to so thoroughly servicing humankind’s physical needs, we’ve created a quandary that’s increasingly endemic with waves of economic development.

Re: 'Rent-a-person who does nothing' in Tokyo receives endless requests, gratitude

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post #18

A friendly reminder that Japan's rent-a-family industry was completely fake: https://newrepublic.com/article/160595/new-yorker-japan-rent... Everyone loves stories about how weird Japan is (especially the Japanese), so these stories should be taken with a grain of salt.

Yeah, I just spent a fair amount of time trying to find this guy's twitter account and got nothing ...

If anyone finds it, please share.

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

Can you tell us more about how you’ve been using this service?

GP is being humorous, and cracking a joke about consulting companies and their productivity.

Substitute McKinsey, Bain, or Accenture for a US version of the joke.

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Ultimately, perhaps some of these people are really looking for a therapist.

I saw a lecture on psychology 101-- I think it was the free online one from Stanford-- where the professor said the main benefit of talk therapy is just having someone who cares about your problems for 45 minutes. So he what he is doing is therapy.

I have a good friend who is a Reiki practitioner.

We don't have deep conversations about theory of function, but the peripheral mentions that creep into our conversations seem to point in this same direction.

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Ultimately, perhaps some of these people are really looking for a therapist.

I 've seen people react with a "oh so wacky japan" attitude when something like this pops up. But I agree with you, this is nothing more than a form of therapy. > Another reflected, "I had been slack about visiting the hospital, but I went because he came with me." I have seen multiple people be much more eager and diligent in taking a pet to the vet, than taking care of theirselves (due to fear, shame, and an if you…

For me personally, I'm more likely to take a pet to the vet because I'd feel guilty about neglecting a pet, while I can neglect myself without feeling guilty (just like I do when I knowingly eat too much junk food or don't exercise enough or whatever -- I know its bad, but I can ignore it).
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