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Actually setting up a server is not difficult. Check out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDddKmdLEdg for setting one up with video conferencing. Finding a server is not difficult - in the worst case you take the default server. And given the server is not locked down, you have access to all other servers (and their users) as well. So I don't really get where you are going with this.
> Actually setting up a server is not difficult. And yet you point me to a YouTube video, rather than a link on their website. The documentation itself strongly encourages setting up your own server to have your own user information and then federating into a system, and yet, the documentation doesn't seem to describe, in friendly terms, how to do that. It might be easy to set up, but I've had trouble discovering all…
So you can see it
> and yet, the documentation doesn't seem to describe, in friendly terms, how to do that.
mind to expand that?