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Ask HN: How would you convince your friends and family to switch from WhatsApp?

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Re: Ask HN: How would you convince your friends and family to switch from WhatsApp?

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I migrated my family to Signal when we had our first kid. We live pretty far from our home town and see family ~2 times a year.

I created a signal group. Invited the entire family to it. Used it to keep everyone up-to-date during delivery. Now that group is where I share photos/videos of my kids growing up, and where we organize our trips back home. Nobody has complained.

tl;dr: procreate and use your children to align incentives.

Re: Ask HN: How would you convince your friends and family to switch from WhatsApp?

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post #85

I just did it with my family, who use FB and know at a high level why FB is bad. Here's what I said: "WhatsApp is now sucking all of your convos (including baby photos, etc.) into Facebook with their recent policy update. We're switching our family group chat to Signal". My mom, who's nearly 70 did it almost instantaneously. EDIT: My parents began to understand why FB is bad by reading books and watching documentarie…

That may be a good motivator, but it's not true. The content of the messages are not going to be "sucked up into Facebook." The content of Whatsapp messages aren't accessible by Facebook.

"The content of Whatsapp messages aren't accessible by Facebook."

How do we know for sure?

It is closed source. We have to rely on reverse engeneering or whistleblowers inside FB.

Re: Ask HN: How would you convince your friends and family to switch from WhatsApp?

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post #85

I just did it with my family, who use FB and know at a high level why FB is bad. Here's what I said: "WhatsApp is now sucking all of your convos (including baby photos, etc.) into Facebook with their recent policy update. We're switching our family group chat to Signal". My mom, who's nearly 70 did it almost instantaneously. EDIT: My parents began to understand why FB is bad by reading books and watching documentarie…

That may be a good motivator, but it's not true. The content of the messages are not going to be "sucked up into Facebook." The content of Whatsapp messages aren't accessible by Facebook.

> That may be a good motivator, but it's not true.

Technically, maybe not, but do the semantics really matter here?

Re: Ask HN: How would you convince your friends and family to switch from WhatsApp?

#116

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Uprooting and going away with no warning, and then refusing to communicate unless it's not from an old platform sounds is a perfect recipe for being seen as awfully arrogant. The issue here is that it's a sudden approach. Humans are creatures of habit, and shifting interpersonal relationships slowly matters. This is not an API migration to a new provider where you push a commit or two and it's done. If you explain wh…

How is it arrogant to dictate personal boundaries? If your not comfortable using a messaging app, you don’t have to use it. Why are you suggesting that everyone needs to bow to peer pressure or they’re arrogant? If I suddenly decide one day I don’t want to drink alcohol but all my friends do, if they see me as arrogant because of that, that’s their problem, not mine. I’m under no obligation to slowly stop drinking be…

It isn't arrogant but it is unilateral, which can always be a problem when it involves others. It's not always avoidable but if you are the one making unilateral changes you may end up bearing costs also, or needed to do extra to facilitate the change.

If you suddenly decide to stop drinking, it's not arrogant and I would hope your friends would be supportive.

Arrogant would be expecting them to all stop going to the bar because you don't want go anymore.

Re: Ask HN: How would you convince your friends and family to switch from WhatsApp?

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> how do they use this information? I don't know. Do you? The terms and conditions say they do it for "operating and providing our Services". It's vague on purpose. And it's not only FB, it's their "business partners" (read it as: whoever pays us) too. "As part of the Facebook family of companies, WhatsApp receives information from, and shares information with, this family of companies. We may use the information we…

So, I took a look. You said that they share the contests of your messages. Looks like that's simply wrong. Messsages "We do not retain your messages in the ordinary course of providing our Services to you. Instead, your messages are stored on your device and not typically stored on our servers. Once your messages are delivered, they are deleted from our servers." Photos "When a user forwards media within a message, w…

They don't have to store anything to make a good use of that data.

Re: Ask HN: How would you convince your friends and family to switch from WhatsApp?

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(serious) can someone explain to me how widespread WhatsApp is in your social circles? I'm unaware of a single individual that I know using WhatsApp and I only used it for a brief window of a few weeks when I (in Indiana) and a guy in Australia attempted to do a podcast together over a decade ago.

Is this big with folks outside of the United States? Is it something that is largely used in the tech community? My friends and I just use run of the mill SMS/MMS with whatever app, or use Facebook Messenger even when we have each other's numbers, or will indiscriminately switch between the two.

My wife's family almost exclusively uses Marco Polo and iMessage.

Re: Ask HN: How would you convince your friends and family to switch from WhatsApp?

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post #3

Nobody will give a damn about the privacy changes. You've got to convince them based on other features like stickers, video playback and other "exciting" things.

I had 3 people giving quite some damn about it today at work. Got them all to switch to Signal :)

And it seems like may others do too: https://twitter.com/signalapp/status/1347240006444675072

Re: Ask HN: How would you convince your friends and family to switch from WhatsApp?

#120

Earlier quoted context omitted.

That may be a good motivator, but it's not true. The content of the messages are not going to be "sucked up into Facebook." The content of Whatsapp messages aren't accessible by Facebook.

> The content of Whatsapp messages aren't accessible by Facebook. You don't know that. Sure the messages are (claimed to be) e2e encrypted. But key exchange goes through Whatsapp (Facebook) servers. So they could give themselves access easily enough if they wanted to.

> But key exchange goes through Whatsapp (Facebook) servers. So they could give themselves access easily enough if they wanted to.

The key exchange going through their servers isn't so much the problem; public-key cryptography solves this. The problem is that the clients are closed source.

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