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Re: How to overcome Phone Addiction

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post #51

Given this is Hacker News, I await the solution of LSD-assisted therapy to counter phone addiction to be proposed soon.

It was on the front page earlier today, and still is.

Why bother stopping a bad habit? That takes effort. Much better to play Russian Roulette with mind altering substances.

Re: How to overcome Phone Addiction

#62
post #59

Earlier quoted context omitted.

The problem is that people under the age of 40 or so don't communicate via phone calls in the first instance. So a phone is not a means to communicate with them and you don't avoid any possible communication issues. Your lunch meeting is telling you on Slack that they're going to be late. You think you have no 'possible communication issues' but you're mistaken.

>The problem is that people under the age of 40 or so don't communicate via phone calls in the first instance. Where on Earth are you getting this information? You've made an unsupported claim that I was able to debunk by talking to the four tables around me. What's your source for "people under the age of 40 or so don't communicate via phone calls?"

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/aug/26/whatsa...

https://www.forbes.com/sites/briannawiest/2019/11/04/millenn...

https://bgr.com/2018/12/09/millennials-phone-calls-survey/

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/family/mobile-chat/why-millennia...

https://www.inc.com/john-brandon/why-millennials-dont-like-t...

https://www.stuff.co.nz/life-style/nz-life-leisure/110277251...

https://jeffjbutler.com/2019/04/02/why-millennials-dont-like...

https://www.bankmycell.com/blog/why-millennials-ignore-calls

https://medium.com/swlh/why-you-should-never-cold-call-a-mil...

Etc etc etc etc

I literally don't think I've been called unannounced by someone under 40 in a decade. In fact I think it's now something of a social faux pas to call unannounced. Maybe the people around your tables are just really rude?

Re: How to overcome Phone Addiction

#63
post #59

Earlier quoted context omitted.

The problem is that people under the age of 40 or so don't communicate via phone calls in the first instance. So a phone is not a means to communicate with them and you don't avoid any possible communication issues. Your lunch meeting is telling you on Slack that they're going to be late. You think you have no 'possible communication issues' but you're mistaken.

>The problem is that people under the age of 40 or so don't communicate via phone calls in the first instance. Where on Earth are you getting this information? You've made an unsupported claim that I was able to debunk by talking to the four tables around me. What's your source for "people under the age of 40 or so don't communicate via phone calls?"

Throughout much of the world today, young and old alike communicate through Whatsapp, not the public telephone system.

Re: How to overcome Phone Addiction

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Anecdata of course but most of the people on my Facebook feed who constantly post status updates are not the most mentally healthy. In fact a lot of them write about their mental health struggles in these statuses. Which I suppose is good in their transparency and openness but I'm not sure the act of posting is helping. In fact I find it deeply narcissistic.

Re: How to overcome Phone Addiction

#65
post #51

Given this is Hacker News, I await the solution of LSD-assisted therapy to counter phone addiction to be proposed soon.

Please invest in my new startup - we provide an app that recommends LSD microdoses to address your milliphone exposure count.

Re: How to overcome Phone Addiction

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

What happens to any text messages or iMessages that you receive while your SIM card is in your other phone? Do they still end up showing in your conversation history on your main device?

What I do is to tell the other person that I'll be using this other number and to call me if there's any change of plans. Edit: I actually have two phone numbers. So the new phone is still at home receiving everything

Is having a second phone number and telling people when to contact you using it really easier than just... not looking at your primary phone?

Re: How to overcome Phone Addiction

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> Your online and offline behavior gets more integrated and you don’t know what you did in the digital reality or the material reality.

Not sure if it's just me, but this is getting very hard to separate during quarantine. I often remember conversations that happened over text as having happened in person. Perhaps my mind is accounting for the lack of face-to-face interaction.

Re: How to overcome Phone Addiction

#68

I am really curious if this is markedly different from concerns people had about children wasting their time away reading books, as seen in Don Quijote for example.

Compared to games today, books normally aren't developed with individually profiled feedback loops and tenfold teams with psychologists and behaviorists trying to optimize them.

Re: How to overcome Phone Addiction

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post #51

Given this is Hacker News, I await the solution of LSD-assisted therapy to counter phone addiction to be proposed soon.

Please invest in my new startup - we provide an app that recommends LSD microdoses to address your milliphone exposure count.

Might want to rethink your business model, unless you can get around the Apple store guidelines forbidding encouragement of drug use[0]

I'm afraid it's a pass from me on investment. ;)

[0] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25605880

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