Ask HN: Co-founder wants me to leave but won't entertain a buy out offer
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#272Can I give you some advice that really sucks? Walk away. It's not fair, but starting a company isn't like getting a job. It's a relationship and a risk that doesn't always work out. Sometimes you find more money and success than you could ever dream of, and other times you waste 11 months. Here's my thought process. You and your cofounder aren't going to be able to work together after this. The company has no money a…
if you can emotionally check out but legally remain, thats ideal. you are mostly likely getting pushed out, so recognize that you are in a 100% adversarial relationship and separate yourself from any kind of personal emotional investment. a completely detached self interested approach is totally warranted given the circumstances, and would significantly increase the probability that you will be compensated more fairl…
Re: Ask HN: Co-founder wants me to leave but won't entertain a buy out offer
#273Can I give you some advice that really sucks? Walk away. It's not fair, but starting a company isn't like getting a job. It's a relationship and a risk that doesn't always work out. Sometimes you find more money and success than you could ever dream of, and other times you waste 11 months. Here's my thought process. You and your cofounder aren't going to be able to work together after this. The company has no money a…
Agree with this, 3% of something is better than 40% of nothing. I was a technical co-founder was that left a startup early on, and because we didn't have a vesting agreement from the very beginning, I was entitled to my 40%, even when I left the company. While it was to my advantage, I didn't want my co-founder to give up when I left, so I gave most of it up. For my next startup, I'll make sure to have a goals-based…
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#274I may be vindictive but I would not walk away, and would rather see the whole venture tank than get blackmailed into giving away a year of my work for free.
To be clear, I wouldn't do anything illegal that would be dumb. But I wouldn't roll over just because a bully tried to bully me out of my cut.
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#275Re: Ask HN: Co-founder wants me to leave but won't entertain a buy out offer
#276If he controls the Board, then he can do pretty much anything. He can create more shares and give them to himself (that would possibly create tax issues, so he might not want to do that).
Also, I'm curious how the stock is valued. Do you know that?
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#277I'd say first things first. You have 11 months and a one year cliff. Find a way to stall for a month and your position gets much stronger. This is a great environment to find a way to stall. Tell your co-founder to write up a proposal so that you can have a lawyer look at it. That's easy to turn into a month of stalling.
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#278Re: Ask HN: Co-founder wants me to leave but won't entertain a buy out offer
#279Do NOT sell. keep 40% of nothing, matter of pride first and for all. Secondly, they are more than likely bluffing. They don't want to put advertising that would generate 5k/mo means they are trying to make things look artificially worse so you leave and keep the rest for themselves. Don't fall for the 40% of nothing once you are close of making money. They just don't want to share the pie.
Re: Ask HN: Co-founder wants me to leave but won't entertain a buy out offer
#280Can I give you some advice that really sucks? Walk away. It's not fair, but starting a company isn't like getting a job. It's a relationship and a risk that doesn't always work out. Sometimes you find more money and success than you could ever dream of, and other times you waste 11 months. Here's my thought process. You and your cofounder aren't going to be able to work together after this. The company has no money a…