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All problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone (2014)

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Re: All problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone (2014)

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post #17

Why would you sit quietly alone in a room when you could be enjoying a sauna, soaking up the sun at the beach, or picnicking in a park? I don’t think the problem is sitting alone with one’s thoughts - but rather that an indoor room isn’t a particularly desirable environment. At least it isn’t as undesirable as an airplane seat though.

The environment doesn't matter. If it does then you're already distracted from the thought.

Re: All problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone (2014)

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Recently I was having a debate with a friend who said "you thought about this lot" in a mocking tone, and I suddenly realized how strange it was that that phrase is used so commonly as an insult.

Solid thought isn't just good but necessary and we're seeing the symptoms of this everywhere.

Re: All problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone (2014)

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post #18
post #17

Why would you sit quietly alone in a room when you could be enjoying a sauna, soaking up the sun at the beach, or picnicking in a park? I don’t think the problem is sitting alone with one’s thoughts - but rather that an indoor room isn’t a particularly desirable environment. At least it isn’t as undesirable as an airplane seat though.

I think the "in a room" is irrelevant to the quote. The entire idea is that people hate being alone with their thoughts and will do nearly anything to avoid being in that situation.

In a room was the setup for the alleged experiment, therefore not irrelevant. I'm wary how quickly the writer jumps to the conclusion that it's thought avoidance and not, possibly, just the fact our minds seek stimulation

Re: All problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone (2014)

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post #17

Why would you sit quietly alone in a room when you could be enjoying a sauna, soaking up the sun at the beach, or picnicking in a park? I don’t think the problem is sitting alone with one’s thoughts - but rather that an indoor room isn’t a particularly desirable environment. At least it isn’t as undesirable as an airplane seat though.

The environment doesn't matter. If it does then you're already distracted from the thought.

That’s absurd. To take it to extremes, for example, if you made someone sit alone in the freezing cold and they complained, the environment is the issue not their ability to live alone with their thoughts.

Re: All problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone (2014)

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post #7

Sorry for the morbid take, but the reason why we cannot sit quietly alone is to distract ourselves from our eventual demise.

Distraction from mortality is actually a recurring point of discussion in Pascal’s writing.

“Distraction is the only thing that consoles us for miseries and yet it is itself the greatest of our miseries.”

Re: All problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone (2014)

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My “inward-directed thought” happens while hiking alone. It’s been very therapeutic and helps me retain a lot more information by replaying a day or class’s events in my head. Some people think I’m weird for doing it, but I think they are weird for not.

Re: All problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone (2014)

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It's a funny thing. Most of us have no trouble driving a car for an hour without any further entertainment, and letting our brains wander freely in the meantime. Most of the driving we do on auto-pilot. (Spoiler: Much of the thinking, too, actually, it turns out when you look closer during meditation). But put the same person in an empty room and the same task of letting your mind wander becomes odious. Odd, no?

A lot of cars have radios (and streaming music capability for more modern cars) that serve as "further entertainment."

Re: All problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone (2014)

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post #7

Sorry for the morbid take, but the reason why we cannot sit quietly alone is to distract ourselves from our eventual demise.

For me it's definitely more that I have a smartphone which facilitates easy access to a socially accepted addiction - sitting alone might make me passingly think about some eventual demise but it certainly doesn't dominate my thinking. Wasn't this the basis of Terror Management theory ? I'm not sure that ever had much evidence for it, other than in some extremely general sense.
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