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...and yet somehow people tell me I'm crazy when I demand that software not autoupdate without user intervention. Automatic updates are RCE vulnerabilities.
No one is arguing a compromise of the update server doesn't allow compromising all customers. They're arguing that the benefits out auto-updating software (especially consumer software) outweigh the risk of a compromised update server, which is generally true.
Making the decision for a user is the issue. Consent to run software A on Monday is not consent to run unknown/unexamined software B on Tuesday.
In the vast majority of cases, receiving userspace updates in a timely fashion is not worth this real-time remote access vulnerability.