I don't agree. And if one of your disks failed, and age was a factor… you’re going to be sweating bullets wondering if another will fail before your resilver completes. So every every single time you loose any drive in a mirror setup you risk all the data on all drives in the entire pool. I sure do hope you aren't on vacation and/or have to order a drive online. It all depends on your use case. For me, raidz3 wins ea…
Repeat after me: RAID is not a backup solution, its an uptime solution.
Does it make sense to double your cost (/halve your capacity) by backing up the whole thing, especially when the backup is likely to be more spinning rust? I've recently chosen to do so (while also backing up the critical data several different ways), but haven't always. I can understand people who still choose otherwise. Either way my main concern is a single raidz3 and I'm going to have a bad week if I lose that, independent of what can be rebuilt.
In general, personal users of ZFS are very different than institutional users of ZFS. Hopefully not too divergent, so those raidz code paths still receive lots of testing and support. But you need to always keep this in mind when reading any advice about ZFS.