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The Prestige Trap: finance, big tech, and consulting

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Re: The Prestige Trap: finance, big tech, and consulting

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The problem with prestige is that you, yourself, may not care about it, but those around it still do and still use it for social signaling. That affects the rationality of the decisions you make around your career in serious ways. I think one of the problems around targeting prestige vs. targeting excellence is that we know what it takes to do something prestigious, but excellence is hard to define, and generally com…

Monetary success historically flowed to founders, and those off the beaten path. 20 years ago startups provided a strong path to success with friends and family often getting excited when the next hot app/website was something you worked on. It’s difficult to replicate either the social or monetary prestige these days, as monetary rewards flow to VC and known consumer experiences are crowded.

Historically, hasn't monetary success gone to people who inherited the wealth?

Monarchs and aristocrats and the like

Re: The Prestige Trap: finance, big tech, and consulting

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I don't think a lot of people know what they want. There is just as much guessing as to which job to take as employers have choosing who to hire. Taking the most prestigious or most compensation is the safest bet, given that you don't really know what you want to do other than 'I like coding and interesting problems'. Partly I think that Harvard students have been adapted to seek prestige (else they probably wouldn't…

> I don't think a lot of people know what they want.

> Just a lack of other goals for which to substitute.

Ding ding.

I've mentored students/grads from aforementioned prestigious Universities and most of them just genuinely don't know what they want

After a few drinks, many have voiced a fear of there being so many options in life and not knowing which would be more fulfilling for them.

Many reach a goal (graduation~), don't know what's really next, look around at nearby peers/family, and simply emulate what they see.

Re: The Prestige Trap: finance, big tech, and consulting

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> the average Ivy League graduate only makes marginally more money than your public school graduate. Sorry, what? The average Ivy League graduate makes substantially more than your average non-Ivy graduate. I don't even understand what your second sentence is trying to say.

I believe he probably got the statistic mixed up. The average Ivy League graduate does indeed make more than the average non-ivy college graduate. But they make about the same (or are about as successful, can’t remember the exact statistic) as someone who got accepted to an Ivy but went elsewhere.

What’s the play if I didn’t get accepted into an Ivy tier school but want to make as much as them?

What’s a benchmark?

Re: The Prestige Trap: finance, big tech, and consulting

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I find it surprising that people still consider FAANG prestigious, given that these companies collectively have probably 1-200,000 engineers in their employ. Even if they managed to perfectly select for the cream of the crop (they don't), that still has to be like 10-20% of all programmers/engineers in the US. Being top 20% isn't that impressive, and in reality they're probably mostly hiring from the top 30-40%.

Top 20% of one of the most intellectually challenging jobs in America, also if you exclude Amazon it is not 20%.

Exclude Amazon? What?

Re: The Prestige Trap: finance, big tech, and consulting

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I felt that way about my own life. Still so sometimes. Though far, far less than I used to, and feeling noticeably less anxiety about it previously. A Relevant bit of reading, I think, I hope: https://fs.blog/2014/05/hunter-s-thompson-to-hume-logan/

Yeah, this is a popular saying, but couldn’t be further from the truth for the most successful people. Generally, they begin with an end in mind. It’s a lot easier to get where you’re going if you know where that is. Or, as the Cheshire Cat says to Alice, “Which way should I go?” “Where do you want to go?” “I don’t much care.” “Then it doesn’t really matter.” (Abridged)

Yeah, this is a popular saying, but couldn’t be further from the truth for the most successful people.

Probably. What about the rest of us who aren't really looking to those people for any kind of framework? Part of the whole "thinking there's a grand narrative" that caused me anxiety was trying to model after all of these "successful" people, what they were doing, and realizing I wasn't any happier for it.

Lately, what's brought me a lot of calm wasn't the chase of an "end state" (so to speak) but more optimizing my path. That, personally, and only speaking personally has been INFINITELY more rewarding.

If that's the "it" factor, then so be it ;)

Re: The Prestige Trap: finance, big tech, and consulting

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> the average Ivy League graduate only makes marginally more money than your public school graduate I'm pretty sure that's not true. I doubt there's much of an actual value-add in going to an elite school, but the average incomes of graduates of them are substantially higher than that of random public school graduates. https://www.payscale.com/college-salary-report/bachelors

My mediocre high school used to give presentations about how pointless it was to go to a big name school. One of the claims was that, after ten years, all differences in median incomes were gone. Curiously they didn't break it down into percentiles. Everyone in the advisors' office bought into this public-school-to-public-university pipeline. My dream in junior high was to go to MIT. When I mentioned this to my guida…

They were just managing expectations. Partially the kids’, partially the parents’

Re: The Prestige Trap: finance, big tech, and consulting

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Wait a second, am I missing out right now? I have an opportunity at Jane Street, but I haven't been exposed to any of the other small name firms. Where do I look to find the higher paying jobs?

One of the first things you might notice in some of the job ads for those firms: instead of "Compensation: competitive salary, 0.0x% equity," you'll start seeing phrases like "extremely high compensation." Then you'll start really feeling like you're not in Kansas. In this vein, the tech industry screws its employees as far as their share of revenue-per-employee goes. Apple makes 10x per employee what Jane St. does,…

From someone working at Jane Street, Apple definitely does not make 10x per employee what Jane Street does.

Re: The Prestige Trap: finance, big tech, and consulting

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What a cloistered view. At my undergrad a total of 3 people joined FAANG companies (of which 2 were Amazon), none joined consulting firms more selective than Accenture, and nobody joined big finance.

How much ink needs to be spilled about Harvard undergrads anyway? Aren’t there other groups of people that deserve respect and attention?

Re: The Prestige Trap: finance, big tech, and consulting

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How is that different to microsoft logging your keystrokes or google reading your email? Having to deal with old fashioned employee espionage seems quaint.

Most people can tell the difference between an activity that provides a clear benefit, like classifying my emails, and one that provides no personal benefit, such as selling mass surveillance as a service to the highest bidder. If you can’t tell the difference than your ethical framework isn’t serving you.

I don't know what you mean. Snowden docs showed google moving domestic US data to the UK and back again so the data is considered foreign and thus readable by spy agencies.

The ability for google to legally and materially read my emails transcends law, classifying emails and my knowledge. Ethics doesnt even start when its done outside society. Advertising is second order financial gain derived from their absolute power over retained information. There's a bigger picture.

Re: The Prestige Trap: finance, big tech, and consulting

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power

money is power. or, capital is power. social capital seems to be our driving force these days. money is cheap, followers are harder to come by [en masse].

socialism becomes this monolithic vacuum which eventually devours it's participants. mostly for the reasons you're pointing out; prestige, or the pursuit of power.

as you point out, even a high level of financial and social capital is not enough. we've created a vacuum of unrealistic perception.

i think this is where media comes into play... the opiate for the masses. your 15 minutes of prestige is not even near good enough to compete with the monolithic personas we've allowed to vacuum up all the power. gates, jobs, Trump, rockefellers, even the house of windsor [how do you even complete with the outside of a monarchy?].

power corrupts. absolute power corrupts absolutely. chasing prestige is very quickly becoming a pipe dream. a race to the bottom if you will. eventually, the only way to gain prestige will be to topple these monoliths. else we wait/fight/plot/etc for the next monolith.

... which will be a space miner ceo, ai breakthrough ceo, fusion power ceo, or quantum programmer ceo.

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