I don't really understand the tone here. Do people really believe there is "evil" motivations in Apple? How about Tesla and its control over your vehicle? Windows also phones home frequently and has advertising built-in. I get that many in the hacker crowd don't like this, so the obvious solution is, don't buy those products. But for everyone else, it's not this big downer of a problem. This is the only time this has…
No, I don't think we are. We're lamenting the motivations of the masses.
Most people want something that 1) looks pretty, and 2) "just works". The advantages of something objectively better (let's assume there's a metric we can agree on) would have to be exponentially greater than the effort to make it work in order to make most people bother with the switch.
On top of that, it's a psychological defense mechanism to simply ignore bad things. Certainly if the effort to fix them is great.
And that gets us to "I don't care if I'm spied on."