Here's the deal: I am not presenting my opinion as objective fact, nor do I actually care that you're a DBA. If anything, the fact that you are a DBA makes your opinion
less relevant to me as an application developer. Simply put, you do not share my pain, and the people who have upvoted me, while your comment is currently gray as I write this, have.
The example was intended to show a scenario in which MySQL silently loses data. There are certainly situations in which this sort of data loss is acceptable. I've been involved in scenarios where it was not acceptable, I was surprised by the behavior, and I ended up with a bunch of missing data.
The problem here is that I was surprised by my database.
That should literally never happen. The correct behavior in this specific case is for the database driver to raise an exception or warning (exactly which should probably be a configurable option, defaulting to an exception). That way, if an exception gets raised in my application, at the very minimum, I have a traceback in my logs to tell me something went wrong, which allows me to fix the issue sooner rather than later.
As for your existence proof that "MySQL's behavior is ok," the fact that MySQL has a bigger installed base literally proves nothing. I guarantee you there are folks out there who are experiencing such behavior and being surprised by it, just like I was. There are people out there for whom this specific behavior is not a problem. And, there are people out there who are length checking every bit of text they try to stuff into a VARCHAR(n) or CHAR(n) field using MySQL, because they started with MySQL and they're basically stuck with it, unless they want to do major surgery on their app.