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Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

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There's a fine line. In the US, we've usually had reasonable parties in power, so it really didn't matter what your politics were. Now... Not so much; and it goes both ways, too. There are loonies on both sides of the aisle. I've always seen CoCs as needed for situations where a conference has a transgender person and a "poorly socialized conservative." Or a Christian proudly wearing a cross and a "poorly socialized…

That is such an American PoV. Plenty of places in the world have or have had political persecution. It is a very real issue in large parts of the world. In general CoCs enforce a very American world view, one where I as a non-American do not feel welcome.

As another non-American I feel similarly which supports the hypothesis that CoCs are primary political instruments.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

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At least in the cases you mention (HOA or police) there is value in the service they provide and it only becomes a problem when they get overrun by people on a power trip. On the other hand, the whole CoC thing feels like it was created by people on a power trip, and/or as a virtue signalling instrument to appear "inclusive", and/or a convenient character assassination tool that can be selectively enforced. Keep in m…

To some degree, you are correct. But I believe you underestimate the amount of abuse and harassment that certain groups of people face in reality. > We've been working fine like that, both online and in the real world without any CoC I'm not sure what you consider "fine". Misogyny has been par for the course for a long time. Not to mention verbal degradation of e.g. ethnicity, gender, and sexuality. We have not sudde…

> you underestimate the amount of abuse and harassment that certain groups of people face

While I don't think this point is necessarily wrong, surely we can agree that in recent years there has been expansion of what is considered abuse. As with any push to change ideas, not everyone is on-board.

Is being subjected to a micro-aggression abuse? 20 years ago you'd only get a "yes" from a few activists / academics. Today you'll find a vocal (and growing) minority claiming it is a form of violence.

We don't all agree on the new rules, and CoCs are a method of making everyone follow them.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

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post #905

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If I understand correctly, the idea is that the reports implicitly threaten the conference with attacks from social media if the conference does not quickly take an agreeable action.

Is this stated anywhere in the article? Or is it just assumed? I'm not seeing anything in the article that indicates this.

I didn't see it in the article. I was guessing at what echelon meant by referring to social media in their comment.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

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It's true that you can't control the outcome. I do lean towards certain language in general, but more so I try to use each of the many options artistically, based on the circumstances. Who am I talking to? What are we talking about? You're correct that ultimately, I'm not responsible for how someone takes things that I say when I'm being sincere... but I'm still one of the people that lives with the outcome. Might as…

> You don't sound like you've had much experience with these variations and their impacts. Lol... I have had tons. In more than one language. My point was, that despite your best efforts, you will still offend someone eventually and that that's the point at which you can't take responsibility for how they feel. For a time I did competitive speech and one of the precepts I operated on (and still do to this day) is "kn…

> rather than a good faith conversation

"[when] there's an assumption of competency, the faults born of ignorance are seen as faults born of malice."

And/or what's being sought is conflict, not conversation.

> Lol... I have had tons.

Yeah ;) Notice that that paragraph has an "I"-statement, a "You"-statement, and a neither?

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

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post #904

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>I recall I left Mozilla before the same-sex marriage fight, but I'm familiar with it. Ah, thanks for clarifying. I wasn't sure about that timeline. I just remember you left early-ish. >Just as I wouldn't call Brendan or gerv a psycho-sadist, I also wouldn't call the people who called for their resignations names, nor group them all together. You must have skipped the comments from the community and outside then that…

>>[Linus has] also made a lot of people's lives worse. > Utter bullshit and baseless allegation. Why would you say such a thing without providing any shred of evidence? Are you actually saying, without irony, that it's bullshit and baseless that Linus Torvalds, one of the most famously abusive OSS maintainers in history, had made people's lives worse by way of these actions? Linus himself has said that he recognizes…

>Are you actually saying, without irony, that it's bullshit and baseless that Linus Torvalds, one of the most famously abusive OSS maintainers in history, had made people's lives worse by way of these actions?

Yes, at least on any scale that matters. He might have (temporarily) upset some people, but that doesn't even come close to what I'd consider "made lives worse".

> one of the most famously abusive OSS maintainers in history

Nice ad hominem by the way. Also bullshit. He was outspoken to the point of being considered rude sometimes, and he was what I would consider abusive in his language on some occasions (like the infamous "abortion" rant; if you never had a bad day and said something regretful, feel free to cast the first stone).

You however make it sounds that he raped a lot of people. Or murdered his wife (hello Hans). Or at least was like this all the time (which he was not, he was mostly polite and professional if maybe a little to direct for some cultural backgrounds).

Get a grip. Some feelings were hurt, some egos got nicked, he crossed the line verbally on a few occasions, got criticized for it, learned from that it seems, some people - which, again, is perfectly fine - decided not to work with him. Linux lost some contributors maybe. In order words: life.

If you expect utter perfection from everybody always, you'll be in for a big surprise.

>Suppose it was a huge deal to other people. I mean, it's not a hypothetical, I've provided citations.

You provided some one-sided hearsay, from mostly anonymous stories, nothing that even amounts to harassment either, let alone sexual harassment. That's the evidential standard of a kangaroo court and the kind of "crime" dictators use to silence their most outspoken dissidents, not due process (which you seem really fond of by mentioning it all the time).

Regardless, that RMS made some people uneasy - while a bit problematic and surely something he could and should have improved - does by far not warrant the way people punch down on him, destroyed his reputation and negated his entire life's work, called him names, fabricated false allegations such as that he was defending Epstein. Where is your empathy for his humanity and plight? Or is that reserved to people who are slightly irked out and/or offended to see he had a mattress in his office (which he used to sleep on, because he was essentially living in his office, btw)?

>Are the feelings of other people illegitimate when they disagree with you?

Their feeling are legitimate - which by the way does not mean they always have legitimate cause to feel that way, nor does it mean they never have a legitimate cause - but matter a lot less than facts or actions.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

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post #892

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If they do it without, they have to own the decision. The CoC provides plausible deniability that it was personal.

It also makes it less likely to actually be personal. I don't think anyone claims that due process is always free of bias and error, but that doesn't make it more likely to be more biased.

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Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

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post #726

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Fwiw, I know someone who wasn't able to get a police report for assault but was able to ban someone from an event. If you're interested in making spaces more welcoming and existing legal structures aren't doing the job, codes of conduct are extremely valuable.

This might sound bad especially to you or the someone you know, but if the legal system (criminal or civil) was not able to act (presumably due to lack of evidence), then I don't think events or other organizations should act either.

We do have different criteria for sufficient evidence for different consequences.

It makes sense to require something like 'beyond all doubt' to put someone behind bars for a few years.

It may make sense to have even stricter criteria (e.g. unanimous votes) to execute someone.

It makes sense to have lower criteria (e.g. 'preponderance of evidence') to impose a civil liability that takes all their money but does not put them in jail - there are cases of crime accusations where the level of evidence is so that were acquitted in the criminal court as the evidence was not sufficient for that, but the same evidence resulted in them being found responsible in civil court.

So it does also make sense to have a different (lower) standard of evidence and process to resolve CoC disputes, without bringing in all the heavyweight legal machinery designed for the high-stakes evaluation of whether someone's guilty of a felony. If the worst penalty that can be imposed is "our organization will consider you a baddy and won't deal with you ever again", then the accused does not need as much protection as if their life or liberty was at stake.

However, there still has to be some standard of evidence and at least some reasonable due process - in this particular case it seems that the bar has been set too low and this might need to be changed.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

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post #716

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> Rather, Codes of Conduct are more difficult than you think. That's a bug when trying to apply a coherent standard, but it's a feature when using the document as cover for arbitrary mob action.

> That's a bug when trying to apply a coherent standard, but it's a feature when using the document as cover for arbitrary mob action. I hate to break it to you, but bad actors will use any available tool they can to gain power and do harm. If there's no Code of Conduct, some bad actor will take advantage of the ambiguity to do things they know make other people uncomfortable, just because they can. If there's an ove…

> bad actors will use any available tool they can to gain power and do harm

Of course they will. That's what makes them bad actors :)

But are the bad actors in the two scenarios (with/without Coc) the same kind of bad actors? Do they have the same set of motivations for being in the community, and the same ability to rally supporters? My perception is that the bad actors in the two scenarios are wildly different, and that they're different because Codes of Conduct tend to distort the core incentives for participation in the community.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

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Guidelines != CoC. People break the HN guidelines all the time and it is fine, they are there to help make people become better contributors and not to punish people.

I'm genuinely not seeing the distinction here. I can be warned, banned, or suspended for violating the guidelines, I can be warned, banned, or suspended for violating the CoC. Both spell out values (be kind) as well as disallow certain actions (don't call names). The main difference I see is that the CoC also spells out enforcement actions and processes, while the enforcement process for the guidelines is whatever da…

HN guideline is a set policies and conflict resolution document. The purpose of those are to define the community focus and get people back to cooperation if members start to falls into argument and conflict.

An CoC on the other hand is exclusively about removal of members to achieve additional goals set by the CoC. It identify who is an "other" and gives power to a small group to opaquely remove the individual without constraints or liability. It also usually supersede any existing rules, goals and processes already existing in the community.

The distinction is thus in purpose, methods and results. If we imagine that we replaced the articles CoC with the HN guideline, we can read this: "When disagreeing, please reply to the argument". The Code of Conduct Enforcement Team could have talked to both Jeremy Howard and Joel Grus and steered the discussing on the factually arguments in favor or against the use of a Jupyter Notebook. They could have reminded both speakers to assume good faith, respond to the strongest plausible interpretation, and avoid unrelated controversies and generic tangents. It could remind them to focus on the purpose of the community, such as having a curious conversations with thoughtful and substantive comments.

Instead they exercised the power granted by the CoC.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

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post #919

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I'm genuinely not seeing the distinction here. I can be warned, banned, or suspended for violating the guidelines, I can be warned, banned, or suspended for violating the CoC. Both spell out values (be kind) as well as disallow certain actions (don't call names). The main difference I see is that the CoC also spells out enforcement actions and processes, while the enforcement process for the guidelines is whatever da…

HN guideline is a set policies and conflict resolution document. The purpose of those are to define the community focus and get people back to cooperation if members start to falls into argument and conflict. An CoC on the other hand is exclusively about removal of members to achieve additional goals set by the CoC. It identify who is an "other" and gives power to a small group to opaquely remove the individual witho…

> An CoC on the other hand is exclusively about removal of members to achieve additional goals set by the CoC.

Source? It seems like your assigning motives to others rather than listening to what they have to say.

> Instead they exercised the power granted by the CoC. If you actually read the parent you'd know they explicitly did not follow the CoC. The CoC sets out a process very much like the one you described in which the enforcement team is actually supposed to have a discussion with everyone involved and get all accounts of what happened. The fact they ignored the CoC isn't a problem with the CoC, it's a problem with the human beings not following the process.

Dang could start banning people at random, that wouldn't mean the HN guidelines are bad, it would mean dang decided not to follow the rules and has the power to do so.

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