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This is very true. This is why conferences are important. A lot of knowledge is sociological in nature. Failures and tricks of the trade are discussed at the bar after 5. I've experienced this first hand. Academic publications and lectures, in their (rightful) pursuit of rigor, aren't usually the right space for conversations around hunches and experiences. Reputations are at stake, and most people are doing impressi…
It seems toxic to me that there's no accepted public venue for that stuff, though. The fact that people are too afraid to relay certain useful information until they're tipsy; the emphasis on "doing impression management". Maybe it should remain separate from the rigorous stuff, but where's the "Op-Ed section" of academic publishing?
That's a good way. It's called knowing your audience. No one wants to be savaged on HN or Reddit by a bunch of people.