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Re: Ask HN: How do you deal with chronic illness?

#71
It's not just an illness when it's chronic. It is part of who you are and it helps to think of it as something that defines you uniquely and differentiates you, instead of something that is just limiting your life.

It's hard. You have to go through pain, fear and disappointment but at the same time going through all that is a testament of your strength and gives you a unique perspective around life and experience in general.

That's on a more personal perspective based on how I managed to deal with the psychological effects of something similar. The current thread has some great advice on many other aspects of dealing with it.

Re: Ask HN: How do you deal with chronic illness?

#72
There is plenty of good info in the other comments but the two things that help me are diet and meditation (I have Rheumatoid Arthritis and it also seems I have Gluten Intolerance/Celiac (cause/relationship??)).

I think with any chronic illness diet plays a big part as when your system is down the food we eat doesn't get processed as well as we like. That is, if you eat junk/processed foods your body can't deal with the 'artificial' components as well as it can real food (no or little human interference). The side effects of poor food choices for me are lethargy and 'brain fog' along with exacerbating my body pain levels. On these days I no longer fight it and just rest. I recover much better/quicker this way rather than trying to fight through it.

Your illness can consume you at times and this can be quite depressing. Learning and practicing some type of mindful meditation can bring you back to some kind of normal, even just 10 minutes a day can make a big difference and I do notice this if I skip a day or two!

Stay well.

Re: Ask HN: How do you deal with chronic illness?

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Fasting should help. A friend of mine reversed the process already in his 50s

I don't think they invited you to give them health advice.

Incoming downvotes...

Why should GP post at all then? Sounds like he or she has given up on something that some others have been able to defeat. I realize it’s hard to get over the idea that there isn’t a magic pill to “fix” you and allow you to continue treating your body/mind like a garbage can, and yah, big changes are hard. Looking for pity maybe?

Re: Ask HN: How do you deal with chronic illness?

#74
My wife has "chronic daily headaches" (that's actually the medical term) for decades. Been to multiple doctors. Have undergone multiple tests. Have tried multiple medications. Nothing.

Just get through one day at a time like someone else said. And look forward to the sweet sweet embrace of death. At least that is what my wife says.

Re: Ask HN: How do you deal with chronic illness?

#75
We recently learned that the chronic illness in our family was due to long-term toxic mold exposure. Here's what we have learned over the last 10+ years:

1) Learn to advocate for yourself. One wise doctor told us "we're all just guessing". I don't know exactly what you are dealing with, but do your own research and seek out health practitioners that are on the leading edge of that community. 2) Learn your "dose". Every body is unique and has its own limits. There is no "normal" with chronic illness 3) Trust your gut. Remember that the struggle is real. There are a lot of doubters, questioners, and "helpful" people. You know what is best for your body. 4) Seek out a community of faith/meditation/prayer/therapy/etc. Dealing with Chronic illness is often more mental than physical.

Re: Ask HN: How do you deal with chronic illness?

#76
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As others have said, you just sort of live with it and it more or less becomes routine/normal. At 19, I was diagnosed with Barrett's Esophagus, which is when you've had heartburn so much that the lining of your esophagus starts to mutate as a protective measure and develops cells similar to the lining of your stomach. The cell mutations make you predisposed to developing esophageal cancer, so I have to get it biopsie…

Have you looked into surgery for the reflux? I had something called "transoral incisionless fundoplication (TIF)" several years ago. It seemed to reduce some of my symptoms somewhat at first, but mostly regressed after several months, and never actually stopped my nighttime breathing problems/throat closing up.

So I have been thinking I should try this thing called LINX. But I am really not sure if that one is better than a partial Nissen fundoplication of some sort. Interested to hear your opinion on it.

Re: Ask HN: How do you deal with chronic illness?

#77
Mine's not chronic yet, so I'm not sure how well I fit into this but I'll contribute anyway. My current efforts are to prevent my current condition from developing into something chronic, though to do so I have to live like it is chronic for the foreseeable future.

For me, it's mostly diet. No alcohol, no/low dietary fats while trying to make sure I get enough B12, iron and protein as I'm anemic and my diet mostly rules out red meats now. And for pain, some codeine (or when things were/are worse, Dilaudid) or acetaminophen or ibuprofen. That's about it.

My focus is on what I have and what I want to do from here out. The initial circumstances nearly killed me, and that kind of thing is, cliche as it may be, but nevertheless, enough to alter one's perspective.

In short, mine's a case of dietary efforts to prevent an organ from failing and pain management. So I do that and get on with it, no more spinning the wheels. I feel good when I'm moving forward with something else.

Re: Ask HN: How do you deal with chronic illness?

#78

My wife has "chronic daily headaches" (that's actually the medical term) for decades. Been to multiple doctors. Have undergone multiple tests. Have tried multiple medications. Nothing. Just get through one day at a time like someone else said. And look forward to the sweet sweet embrace of death. At least that is what my wife says.

My girl has something very similar the only thing that seemed to help was a good pair of polarized sun glasses and possibly very low dose Adderall (currently testing but seems to help). Something about the low dose seems to cause the deep throbbing headache to get bypassed. *Not giving you medical advice but that's what we tried after the other stuff has failed.

Re: Ask HN: How do you deal with chronic illness?

#79
I have a quite rare condition called intestinal malrotation which basically means my intestines didn't rotate completely before I was born (apparently they do rotate).

I had surgery and I am basically living a normal life, I didn't have symptoms until I was about 25 years old. The thing is it made me lactose intolerant and very sensitive against sleep deprivation.

What basically happens is stomach pains from time to time and that I need to visit the bathroom quite often, sometimes in a big hurry.

I'm living basically as before, eating too much lactose still and getting too little sleep. I am starting to get better on it though.

Get enough sleep is a big point in general I believe if you want to your body to be healthy. Also eat healthy and move a lot. I have a standing desk and tries to stand most of the day. It helps a lot.

Re: Ask HN: How do you deal with chronic illness?

#80
Not ‘big C’ chronic - but I’ve got Celiac (fine until I get gluten-Ed) and had a DVT a few years back.

No one cares about your health more than you. You must be your own advocate in how to maintain baseline health.

Also, you’ve got to reserve holiday / pto / downtime for when issues pop up. Life doesn’t go to 100% like it did before these issues.

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