Thank you for highlighting this. As others have said, I could not agree more.
As a Product Manager, working remotely 100% of the time is absolute hell. And I say this as someone who was already working from home ~70% of the time before (and I was mostly ok with that).
I also wanted to pick on a few of the categories you mentioned:
> "only incompetent managers need to see you in person"
Some of the best work I've done is when I'm able to go brainstorm in a room with my leadership. Lacking the ability to do this as we plan our next release, or the next 3 year strategy or whatnot is extremely difficult.
Having competent management means that they understand when this is valuable and when it's not.
> "your co-workers aren't your friends"
I hear this a lot, and I have to feel bad for people who have never experienced true friendship at work. At each of my jobs, I've made lifelong friends. Friends I've since vacationed with, stood up as a groomsman in a weeding for, etc. This is part of what made those jobs so rewarding.
I think the general thought is that "jobs change, so that 'friend' might not be around next week", and that's true. But in my experience, if they're true friends, changing jobs doesn't change that.
This says more about me than anything, but where else am I going to meet friends?
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All of this to say, in addition to being tone-deaf in light of the current reality in the world, these sentiments are also suspect under normal circumstances.
These things may be true for some people at their place of employment, or for them personally, but it's hard to understand where this comes from.