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Please expand your case. Those technologies were developed for other initial purposes, your case just proves an example of ethics depending on users
'Technology is neutral' presumes equal access to technology. Technology without uniform access yields a power imbalance.
Democratization might work, but isn't there a risk for the user to corrupt its intended purpose due to the inherent darkness of human nature?
Ex: Initial intents of democratizing knowledge (Google) or social networks (Facebook) both ultimately ended up corroding society with misinformation, fueled by human greed in the ad industry.
What do you say of missiles, and as extension, nuclear weapons? Do you want dictatorships to have them as well? They will ultimately, but we cannot control their use for deterrence or destruction (MAD policy).