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How long until the one drink I had too many at a bar whilst dating turns into a statistically higher insurance premium. Or my church finds out about my in-progress divorce and excommunicates me. The ability for the individual to reveal specific information on their own terms is necessary for social cohesion. Let's not pretend we have transparency on what our information is being used for, nor are we likely to ever ge…
Why belong to a church and hide major life events like divorces from it? But your broader point is sound. I'd just replace "church" with "nosy extended relative".
You could pick any situation where a process like divorce is started, proceedings or repair of the relationship has yet to begin and an automated service alerts people without immediate knowledge, who in turn pull the levers behind the scenes.
Also the King Henry the 8th parallels are interesting.