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Re: Ask HN: Do you have inspiring spontaneous conversations while remote working?

#31
I think I have as many conversations like that over slack (in text) and during standups/planning (video call) as I had in ${job-1} in the office. Don't miss them really.

Different things work for different people. Always-available group video call works for some for example. Don't expect any universally-right solutions though since they depends on the people. Some won't be interested and that's fine. They would probably skip an in-person conversation too.

Re: Ask HN: Do you have inspiring spontaneous conversations while remote working?

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

If they’re spontaneous there are no rules are there? Are you proposing to regulate spontaneity?

Well that's an interesting point. What i'm thinking is based on the "well-known" assumption that spontaneity inspire creativity that thus can be actually productive. For example, here is a scenario: (In a random afternoon) A: The project she presented in the morning so unclear. I have no idea what to do next. B: Me neither, but I'm trying to...... A: Well.......

The problem we had to get over pretty quickly was the embarrassment of admitting that you didn't know something. We set up a channel with everybody where if you had an issue, or a dumb question you could just put it out there. The more people posting "dumb" questions the less concerned people were about appearing stupid and the more we shared information.

Turns out that we're actually better off now than we were in the office.

It helps we've got a team with few egos, who are genuinely focused on delivery of a decent product.

Re: Ask HN: Do you have inspiring spontaneous conversations while remote working?

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Our Friday stand-up is pretty much an opportunity to share a song from a year and why it's meaningful to you personally. The idea was suggested by our scrum master last June and it has gone down well. It's been good for maintaining the bonds while remote working and also learn a bit more about colleagues. That and having an understanding that everyone has ups and downs especially as we will face into winter and the u…

Can I ask if it has gone down well because it actually did or because as in most of these things, people are 'afraid to speak up' and just go along with it? I can't even imagine being in one of those calls. I prefer my personal life to have a good buffer from my work life (thus I speak about it as little as possible) and same for my co-workers personal lives. I've seen these kinds of 'calls/meetings' to improve relat…

That's the problem. There isn't an "off the record" any more.

Re: Ask HN: Do you have inspiring spontaneous conversations while remote working?

#34
In my team my personal Zoom room has become a communal channel. Somebody would join my Zoom at ~8:30am and it keeps going until about ~5:30pm everyday. People are free to come and go as they wish, people from other teams join, when people come looking for us they come into the Zoom call etc. This includes other people from other teams from different countries. If things do get private/technical/disturbing we just go into breakout rooms. When I finally get online at 9am or so there are usually four or five people already in there.

So to answer the questions: I don't miss them because I didn't lose them, and it has worked great -- our team is the highest performing one with the least amount of cabin fever. The reason why it's successful is because it isn't management-driven "mandatory talk time." It's just a bunch of people hanging out.

Re: Ask HN: Do you have inspiring spontaneous conversations while remote working?

#35

No. We tried having daily "tea break" calls and weekly "Friday drinks" calls, but attendance was so low that we just cancelled them. Amongst people who were already friendly we still have private group chats in our work Slack, but the number of conversations is obviously far lower than when you're all in the kitchen making breakfast or tea in the morning. We had a conversation about why the daily and weekly open conv…

Same.

I've worked at my current company over five years and have been a really strong IC. I used to talk to lots of people in the office from many various teams and backgrounds. Now I only talk to my lead and a handful of others.

Work drags on every day and feels inhuman. It never "ends" now. I don't find any joy or satisfaction in it. I hate this, and I don't know how much longer I can put up with it.

I don't even use our product. The thing that kept me happy and productive was the other people. Now that's gone.

I need a sabbatical. WFH is awful. I'm so burnt out.

Re: Ask HN: Do you have inspiring spontaneous conversations while remote working?

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In my team my personal Zoom room has become a communal channel. Somebody would join my Zoom at ~8:30am and it keeps going until about ~5:30pm everyday. People are free to come and go as they wish, people from other teams join, when people come looking for us they come into the Zoom call etc. This includes other people from other teams from different countries. If things do get private/technical/disturbing we just go…

This sounds like a great idea! I might want to try that.

Re: Ask HN: Do you have inspiring spontaneous conversations while remote working?

#37
I've not been having these conversations since covid, and yes I miss them a lot. I prefer to flesh out ideas by kicking them around with others, and this is has suffered significantly. I've noticed a real lack of engagement in online communication at work, by others and by me. Personally, I'm bored of online communication having used email since the 90s and seeing it degrade into an ad-hoc workflow mismanagement tool. I suspect others are weary of opening their emails in the morning, too. The surge in online communication due to covid actually makes me more weary, and the dwindling engagement I see in Zoom, Teams etc suggests to me a similar creeping dissatisfaction. When it's feasible, I plan to ditch email other than transactional necessities, and conduct all work interaction by phone or in person. Webcam feels unnatural to me, it's more like being on show than being in a conversation.

Re: Ask HN: Do you have inspiring spontaneous conversations while remote working?

#39
post #35

No. We tried having daily "tea break" calls and weekly "Friday drinks" calls, but attendance was so low that we just cancelled them. Amongst people who were already friendly we still have private group chats in our work Slack, but the number of conversations is obviously far lower than when you're all in the kitchen making breakfast or tea in the morning. We had a conversation about why the daily and weekly open conv…

Same. I've worked at my current company over five years and have been a really strong IC. I used to talk to lots of people in the office from many various teams and backgrounds. Now I only talk to my lead and a handful of others. Work drags on every day and feels inhuman. It never "ends" now. I don't find any joy or satisfaction in it. I hate this, and I don't know how much longer I can put up with it. I don't even u…

I schedule my team a weekly zoom ‘group hug’, where we just basically take a break for 30 minutes and talk about our pets or various desk tchotchkes (which I think are important to have some small objects that can provide temporary joy).

It can be a bit awkward at some times, but it seems to be a nice change.

Re: Ask HN: Do you have inspiring spontaneous conversations while remote working?

#40
The Linux kernel and most other open source projects have primarily been built by fully remote teams. But every few days there’s a thread full of people wringing their hands about how there’s no way to do spontaneous, creative, collaborative work remotely.
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