Can some knowledgable person articulate why physicists are so sure that QM and GR are incompatible?
Relativity deals with so much gravity that spacetime is warped.
Neither is appropriate for the other and they are on opposite sides of the spectrum. Classical physics is useful in the middle at "human" scale.
What would be nice is a simple theory that covers it all. Nothing we currently have is able to stretch to be useful in all situations.
Sean Carroll's _The Big Picture_ was useful for me, as was the older _A Brief History Of Time_ by Stephen Hawking