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My wife recently passed away. I used my time off to build her a giant bookshelf

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Re: My wife recently passed away. I used my time off to build her a giant bookshelf

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> at the ripe old age of 30 Fuck me...

This is a reminder for what we should all keep in mind... Things happen. Work for tomorrow but remember today. And record your journey.

I read this [0] just yesterday, and section 5 is acutely relevant here. I also liked the Halley comment in the discussion [1].

But yes, fuck cancer.

[0]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=24637930

[1]: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=24640599

Re: My wife recently passed away. I used my time off to build her a giant bookshelf

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post #5

It seems so fulfilling, being able to make such beautiful things. But also a bit expensive eh... to get the woodworking skills (presumably by taking classes at a technical college?), the equipment, and the time involved. If any folks here are capable of doing this stuff, would you please share details of your journey, I feel inspired to learn some of this myself. Did you feel it was all worth it, what would you do di…

I got into woodworking when I was 11. I checked out a library book about making wooden toys and used a simple hand scroll saw my dad had kicking around to make some of the wooden animal figurines for my younger siblings. Then I started making swords, daggers and shields since I was interested in all things knights and castles. I saved up and bought a cheap, underpowered Craftsmen jigsaw and my production output incre…

Your story is a lot like mine! Computer science was so hard to turn away from back then.

I don’t think I regret leaving wood working as a career, but I do wonder sometimes. I actually enjoyed it. Except in winter - the shop was always freezing cold, haha. We’d sticker lumber for the kiln in the rain for days or weeks sometimes.

Something I was really into before leaving was the CNC machine. I think I could have enjoyed getting to know and using that thing.

Re: My wife recently passed away. I used my time off to build her a giant bookshelf

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post #12
post #5

It seems so fulfilling, being able to make such beautiful things. But also a bit expensive eh... to get the woodworking skills (presumably by taking classes at a technical college?), the equipment, and the time involved. If any folks here are capable of doing this stuff, would you please share details of your journey, I feel inspired to learn some of this myself. Did you feel it was all worth it, what would you do di…

It's less expensive than pre-made furniture. A good place to get started is construction lumber -- just 2x4s. They're not bad once you clean them up with a sander and potentially planer and finish them, and they have a certain industrial aesthetic raw. They're cheap enough that if you mess up or change your mind, you can throw them away and try again. And if you want to redo a piece of furniture, you can do that too.…

I wouldn't expect a beginner to have a planer. (Nor would I put it in the first $2500 of tools to recommend to someone starting out.)

Re: My wife recently passed away. I used my time off to build her a giant bookshelf

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post #5

It seems so fulfilling, being able to make such beautiful things. But also a bit expensive eh... to get the woodworking skills (presumably by taking classes at a technical college?), the equipment, and the time involved. If any folks here are capable of doing this stuff, would you please share details of your journey, I feel inspired to learn some of this myself. Did you feel it was all worth it, what would you do di…

I'm a bad woodworker. My furniture has bad joints, gaps between pieces of wood. I don't use good wood. I do a poor job painting or staining it... and everyone still just sits down on my chairs and says, "This is so cool that you make your own furniture." Start small, start bad, improve on each project... and give it time.

I can totally relate. I always strongly believed in being able to do and build things myself. That's why I also even learned to knit at some point.

There is a great sense of self to be experienced by doing these fundamental "tasks".

Re: My wife recently passed away. I used my time off to build her a giant bookshelf

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post #5

It seems so fulfilling, being able to make such beautiful things. But also a bit expensive eh... to get the woodworking skills (presumably by taking classes at a technical college?), the equipment, and the time involved. If any folks here are capable of doing this stuff, would you please share details of your journey, I feel inspired to learn some of this myself. Did you feel it was all worth it, what would you do di…

Setting aside cost, space is also something of an issue. A couple power saws and a cloud of sawdust will happily consume a small garage. Even if the saw itself is small, maneuvering a large piece of work through the saw requires clearance.

Re: My wife recently passed away. I used my time off to build her a giant bookshelf

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post #60

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Sounds like you bought cheap LED strips. The slightly more expensive ones are a lot more reliable.

In fact, I bought fairly expensive ones but I think what I got were fakes. (Thanks amazon). I subsequently found a vendor that I get reliable parts from -- but the point remains that regardless of how good those strips are, the shelves will outlive them.

You could say that about any lightning source used anywhere. In general, a piece of wood is going to outlast and electrical device.

Re: My wife recently passed away. I used my time off to build her a giant bookshelf

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What a nice thing to do! However I couldn't not notice the typical anonymous mob commenting. Some of the comments on that reddit are so mean. How evil can some folks be when someone just went through his wife's passing.

I didn't see much of that, most of the comments seems to be nice and supportive (at least I've felt a bit uplifted from how nice a lot of the comments were)
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