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Don't forget the case of black CEOs mistaken as subordinates. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23540162
That's very disturbing. I never thought I will consider myself lucky after what I went through.
The comments are saying similar things to what I experience in America, where there is a need to prove unnecessary things, and also no acceptance of mediocrity. Every black person has to be Obama. Whereas I see others are getting the benefit of the doubt.
This isn't really news in the black community, people who almost universally realize that their experience is going to be challenged and invalidated with an infinite series of excuses and sometimes plain gaslighting so they just stop talking about it as it falls on deaf ears. About the need to be better by a mythically high standard, JFK said the same thing 60 years ago, so I too am deeply skeptically about people that suddenly want to listen. For how long will they really want to have this conversation this time?
For me, the primary validation about America's quirks is my experience outside of America. In other markets, primarily my experience lies in Commonwealth and European markets, I've just been accepted as a competent person taking initiative. Ironically, it is because of my metadata of being American and additionally my existence in Tech / Silicon Valley that helps. But it is a glimpse of the refreshing experience that Ivy League white males seem to describe having the rest of their lives in America. The experience that makes them have an unfaltering marriage to the US infrastructure and stability, which is completely foreign to me, while I retain access to an America that can function as a tool for me to obtain access to capital.