I get that. I can give up seeing the Louvre this summer. But my loved one is in another country and the last thing my heart needs is more lock-downs. We need to consider what closed borders are doing to bi-national married / unmarried couples. They've been a largely ignored demographic during this pandemic and collateral damage due to the broad and sweeping policies that have taken place on the borders.
I do not understand why you think that one specific demographic is being targeted here, as lockdowns typically affect every demographic within a region.
My heart (and renal, neural, respiratory etc systems) all very much need some brutal lockdowns for a few solid weeks, followed by very careful and complete contact tracing with significant penalties for people who intentionally try to circumvent these measures.
Perhaps you could mention where you and your loved one are.