Hmmmm.
"This had better be the best thing ever, because since I heard that you expressed technical reservations you may be powerless to do anything about, and I have power over you, out of spite I'm going to put your entire family on a plane against your wishes, possibly regardless of your realistic capability to influence the outcome."
There is no implied wisdom there besides "best not be the family of a principal in China who made the mistake of being too open with his opinion in front of the wrong people"; even if you were going for the old adage of the Greek architects and bridge builders being expected to "stand beneath their bridges" with their family when they were tested.
You really lose the evocative power when you insert an authoritarian power with demonstrable disregard for human life into the equation. You lose the message in the quagmire of unsavory politics with a Western audience. Furthermore, you run the risk of unintended wisdom extraction, such as that sometimes, no matter how hard you want something to be good, you just can't marshal the people/knowledge/manpower to get it done well with what you have, within the time slotted. The capacity to recognize when this is the case is the entire reason for existence of the field of engineering in the first place, yet is also one of the least appreciated or safe aspects to actually express when you start making the outcome of an engineering project a matter of political import.other Other unintended nuggets of wisdom retractable from that parable includes "keep your Mouth in check around high-ranking Party members/Politburo/Das Kommisar."
Sometimes it's better to just be direct about it. My two cents anyway. Again though, I've been around enough tainted engineering projects to recognize the perversity in the gesture. If I were that Party member, I'd be pushing my principal on why they felt way and what problems needed to be overcome without resorting to abusing my position to instill fear. After all, I would have no interest in losing my best and brightest, if the real problem was subcontractors not meeting QC targets, and no one being willing to call it out or escalate which is all that happens when you start throwing weight around as originally expressed.