FWIW, I am with you in the camp that cares about compile times. I use C++, I care deeply about compile-time correctness (and have "as close as I can get to rust as I can" abstractions for tons of things such a small locks, but then take advantage of the almost-dependent typing provided by C++ to go even further than you can in rust to prove correctness of my buffers), and I envy people who get to code in Haskell or Idris. I am not a "dynamic typing" addict by any means.
But I work on network protocols and file formats and parsers and video transformers and user interfaces (often command line or web) and a long time ago games ;P... I make a small change and then I want to see the behavior difference. I almost always type code that compiles, but that doesn't mean it did what I want when interacting over the network: rust doesn't provide anywhere near powerful enough type abstractions to actually prove my code is correct... it only is proving that my code can't crash and will avoid undefined behavior.
What is so frustrating is that there is nothing about Rust that makes it impossible to make fast. With C++ I get to manually make tradeoff in my code on a file-by-file basis with an assumption that my project will be built out of thousands of mostly-independent fragments that I am able to compile incrementally or in parallel. I can very rapidly isolate individual functions I am working on for fast iteration without having to restructure my project, I can tell the compiler to instantiate templates in different ways to reduce dependencies, and I have designed a system to let me do parallel compiles on AWS Lambda (I haven't yet gotten my build environment to be ready for a -j1000 parallel build, but I am somewhat close).
I have been integrating some rust libraries into my codebase (I haven't even gotten to the point of really coding in it omg) and Rust is just so painful and frustrating to work with... and it really does just seem to be, as you pointed out, a matter of priorities and interest: there is this myth that it is some kind of tradeoff on the type system, but it isn't; it is just that the people who work on rust seem to not work on the same kind of projects that we do, at least in the same way, and so have made a bunch of trade offs like "I would rather never have to type a prototype than save any time compiling" and "I would rather my build system never have to consider dependency management than save any time compiling" and "I would rather provide the highest possible quality resulting binary than save any time compiling" (which is at least one I can appreciate, but only once a month when you cut a release... not the hundreds of times a day that I recompile my C++).