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I Got My Attention Back (2017)

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It’s not a “quick fix” but meditation really does help build focus, attention, and awareness. If that sounds like it would be impossibly hard, you can definitely start small with something like 10 breaths where you really just pay attention to breathing in and out, and then gradually work up to longer stretches. I find that meditation has a spillover effect into my life — I’m less likely to be tempted by junk food, l…

Interesting... I've read that but perhaps chose not to believe it. Would you mind sharing how often you meditate and for how long?

Here are some guided meditation recordings that I found very helpful for getting started (if you’re on mobile, scroll to the right for the play button): https://www.uclahealth.org/marc/mindful-meditations

Of these, I have listened to the Breathing Meditation (5 min) and the Body Scan for Sleep (13 min) the most and would recommend them. Maybe keep the 5 minute one open in a tab, and if you find yourself in a procrastinatory tab-switching vortex, break and listen to it.

Here are some longer and more “themed” guided meditations from the meditation guru Tara Brach. She also does weekly livestreams if you’re into that: https://www.tarabrach.com/new-to-meditation/

If you want to learn about the science behind how meditation changes your brain, look at “The Science of Mindfulness” from The Great Courses (it’s on Audible): https://www.amazon.com/The-Science-of-Mindfulness-audiobook/...

Aside from meditation, as a gold medalist procrastinator and long-time (~20yrs) Adderall user, I’d caution you against seeking that out to help you with the problem you describe. It can send context-switching behaviors into overdrive and cause a host of other problems. That said, there’s no shame in taking them if they’re right for you (definitely would encourage you to find a doctor that’s comfortable treating ADD etc, possibly a specialist).

For managing tasks, this the only method that’s effective for me: get some {red, yellow, green} post-it notes (color = priority) and a sharpie. Write down every task that is weighing down your mind (this is the basis of the GTD method). One task per post-it, and write down the estimated time in minutes to complete. If it’s a long task (refactor script.py), I convert it into X number of 30 time blocks that I want to spend on it, not necessarily expecting completion by the end of that time. Use the pomodoro method to knock out tasks, and draw a big ass check mark on the post-it when you finish one (feels great!). I also organize the tasks on a whiteboard with the following rows as categories: {health, life, work, finance, education, projects/other}.

This is my procrastination eradication method. There are many like it, but this is mine.

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If we say distraction is actually caused FOMO, then how do you treat that? I think we are dealing here with emotional management

I believe it is more than the Fear Of Missing Out. We are very curious creatures. It can be caused by not liking your job and looking for a way out. It can be a dopamine addiction. Most distractions are very easy to process so when you are doing hard work it might be tempting to look for something more easy on the brain. 'Social' is designed to distract us. So unless you turn off all knobs it is hard to ignore. I bel…

I really like this comment. It's almost like distraction is a symptom of escape from something in our everyday lives.

I think one part is curiosity like the other commenter said, but I also think that part of it is seeking distraction from something. Like we want to take up the space in our mind, so there isn't room for something else.

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Unfortunately my phone is literally the first thing I do when I wake up, and last thing at night. Is sometimes an hour on the phone before actually getting out of bed. I had to quit Reddit years ago because of the addiction. Don't really use Facebook. But Twitter currently has its hooks in me. It is a news source to me, about the pandemic, election, protests. But it manages to suck me in to reading extra comments and…

> Unfortunately my phone is literally the first thing I do when I wake up If this is true, like if you use your phone as an alarm clock, you’re screwing yourself. BJ Fogg’s book Tiny Habits walks through this exact example, and spoiler: it’s hopeless unless you physically separate from your phone. The only levers you have to manipulate your behavior are prompt, ability, and motivation. Your phone prompts you reliably…

I do, but with the whole current WFH thing it doesn't do a whole lot, since I am awake before it anyways. Its actually nice to naturally wake up without an alarm most days.

I also don't have any notifications on from social media. Texts, important email, and important slack. Almost nothing else, mostly stuff that I need to go clean up and turn off the notification permissions anyways.

But I totally get your point. Its right there and accessible. I woke up early today, rather than going back to sleep for another hour spent it on the phone for some reason. Definitely have some work tonight to try and figure out some better habits.

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I built this service to help deal with this problem: https://omreader.co It allows you to read blogs (RSS feeds) and email newsletters on your Kindle. I originally started working on this to help me read financial news without needing my phone which I find to be a really distracting environment. I would find myself mindlessly opening up and scrolling through reddit or HN and in my experience, repeatedly doing that ha…

I launched something similar in 2014 - a few years too early, I guess: https://betalist.com/startups/thedailycrunch

Good luck with your service :) officially supporting apps on the Kindle would open up a very interesting (if niche) market - I'd love to see "the slow web" become a thing.

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Choosing "dumber" technology has drastically helped my ability to stay focused when reading longform articles (including this one!) while retaining more useful information. I wrote an iOS Shortcut that converts a web page to PDF and sends it to my reMarkable tablet. It works very well.

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I built this service to help deal with this problem: https://omreader.co It allows you to read blogs (RSS feeds) and email newsletters on your Kindle. I originally started working on this to help me read financial news without needing my phone which I find to be a really distracting environment. I would find myself mindlessly opening up and scrolling through reddit or HN and in my experience, repeatedly doing that ha…

This looks terrific. It seems to be exactly the service I have been looking for. I too found myself easily distracted and addicted to my phone when browsing the news. To help combat my addiction, I wrote a script that'll parse my favorite news websites and email them to my Kindle. It's been "life transforming". I can now read my news addiction and distraction free. Plus, I have always preferred reading walls of text…

Yeah you've touched upon one of the key value adds I think. I've put a lot of work into trying to support as many sites as possible. There are multiple processing stages and fallback paths that are used to ensure that the article is parsed correctly. It's an ongoing challenge but it seems viable as it stands currently. If you run into any issues please let me know. I'm relatively quick at improving the support for any site when I become aware of a potential for improvement.

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Everyone has their hacks, heres mine: I imagine all the interfering as an itch. Once can practice not minding an itch, that skill can be transferred over for example for not springing for some food. So the idea is to take stock of current state of mind and whatever "itches", tag it and apply skill. This goes for those dopamine related "itches" as well.

Of course everyone is different and everyone's situation is different.

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I'd actually appreciate anyone's opinion or advice on this... I grew up on computers and the internet (absent, technophile parents made that very easy) and by the age of 13 or 14 my computer really just felt like an extension of myself. When I was in undergrad, I realized that the only way I'd ever actually properly study is if I had someone on my dorm floor take my computer from me and refuse to give it back for som…

Here are some things that have worked for me: 1. Keep your phone on silent (or shut off) in a different room than your office (or wherever you're trying to work) 2. Install an app like Refine on your phone and block all social media and sites that you open up frequently (HN would possibly be an example) 3. Keep your phone in a different room before going to sleep. 4. If you like listening to audiobooks, consider gett…

Yes I agree, Drugs are point of last resort since from I have inquired in the field and apparently going one can lead to a stack of them later on in life as the loose effectiveness and way they work.
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