I think it's wrong to try to push the responsibility for other people's choices to use something or not to the person who creates that thing. And it's also very contradictory to another aspect of hacker or engineering culture which is like... someone can create a amazing free security service and then that service can be used in deplorable ways by criminals but almost nobody in this scene will admonish the creator because they realize that the creator is not responsible for how people choose to use that creation. not to mention that exact sentiments is basically universally expressed in every license that exists. so I really think it's embarrassing how such supposed criticism passes on these forums without being you know immediately dismissed as ridiculous.
It is also impractical to expect the Creator to anticipate all the use cases and potential benefits and pitfalls that people might find in those different use cases and express them.
Second it's fundamentally a violation of a boundary about choices. The people who make the choice to adopt software or not are the ones who are responsible for the technical debt or credit they allocate by making that choice.
Instead of criticizing creators for not adequately disclaiming their new products because of a hypothetical or real harm that is incurred because people choosing that, you should criticize the people selecting things for being irresponsible with the projects they are responsible for.
If your evaluation of a project is simply based on reading the readme at a superficial level then it's nobody else's fault but yours if you end up with problems with the tech that you choose.
I'm not saying you're being mean here I think this is just a misguided attempt to try to avoid technical debt but it doesn't focus on an effective way to do that. What I feel is disappointing is how this sort of criticism is often leveled at new projects as a way to dismiss or I think unfairly criticize these creations and their authors, maybe as form of "concern trolling." if I understand that term correctly.
Like, "don't use this new project in production" is sort of a tautology of "be careful about any tech that you choose that it's suitable for your use case", which is pretty obvious and I think low value thing to say, but it's often said about new projects in a way that suggests "this project is terrible and the author is bad for suggesting that people even think about using this". which I think is very toxic to a culture of creation, invention and tinkering and it's disrespectful of people who put in the effort to make something. it also encourages something which I think is harmful which is the need to think "I need to make this project perfect and bulletproof before I even think of releasing it" which I think means there's a lot of projects that could have benefited if they were appreciated at the small flame level, but maybe people are discouraged from putting them out there because of this sort of misused criticism.
even though I'm not really a fan of his I think Paul Graham said something about this point regarding startups that's like a startup is like an idea that's just being born and it's very fragile so you have to kind of protect it but it can grow into something really amazing.