Ask HN: How are you holding up?
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It's been the most toughest times that've ever faced.
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#2You have to learn to see the future beyond your current pain.
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#3I'm going to commit suicide. I was terminated without any warning last week.
"The quantity isn't there and the quality isn't there."
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#4Seems less bad to me than the year or so that followed 9/11. Bad and bad enough though.
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#5I'm holding up quite well. I'm still working from home, but my kids are going to school again, which helps a lot. Our holiday to Sweden was cancelled, so we're renting a campervan and touring around our own country (Netherland) instead. We're well aware we've got it relatively easy compared to many other people.
But if these times are so hard on you, why don't you share a bit more about your situation?
(I'm assuming this is still about the Corona crisis. Or is it about the unrest in the US instead?)
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#6i can't deal with the fact that i'm okay while so many elsewhere aren't. i've donated a considerable amount of money and still i feel like it's not enough and that i should change course. i've chosen the coming election (in the us) as a deadline for making this decision.
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#7Thanks for asking and hope you are doing well! I unfortunately got dumped by a girl I was dating, lost my job and a (non-nuclear) family member while living in Manhattan, NYC. I thought I was holding up okay but once my gym shut down and social events shut down (before later transitioning to videoconference) my mental state and diet declined fast. The lack of human contact was mitigated to an extent by virtual social events but i feel exhausted by them after a short while. All but a couple people I know my age (mid 20s) are still in the city. Since my landlord offered no help and my lease is up, I’ll be contributing to my building’s overwhelming vacancies next week when I move back in with my folks out West.
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#8Thanks for asking and hope you are doing well! I unfortunately got dumped by a girl I was dating, lost my job and a (non-nuclear) family member while living in Manhattan, NYC. I thought I was holding up okay but once my gym shut down and social events shut down (before later transitioning to videoconference) my mental state and diet declined fast. The lack of human contact was mitigated to an extent by virtual social…
Loneliness can be a serious problem. You really really do need some social contact. To keep things safe, I think the best approach is to have a small group of people who meet with each other but nobody outside the group. It won't hurt to also keep some distance to each other.
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#9Thank you for asking BruceOxenford. Very kind. Good luck to us all in keeping safe and well - physically and emotionally. Don’t Panic!
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#10Highly recommend going outside, maybe hiking for a day.