Once you've introduced the concept of "blame" for a situation it's hard to get out of it. It's unhealthy, IMO. Instead, I prefer to focus forward on what to do next and how to avoid this particular issue again... and simply move on.
Well, you can't know how to avoid it until you know how you got into it. Which is one form of "blame" -- though I would agree it's more productive not to direct it at a person , and instead blame features of the situation .
Blaming in the context of a situation is called "an excuse", and it's still defensive.
It's pretty nuanced after this though. If folk are defensive when a problem happens ("I don't know how this happened"="it wasn't me"), you have a blame culture.
So how does one figure out what happened without someone jumping on the blame-sword (or run screaming from it)? I haven't quite figured out the answer to that question, but one thing that helps is only ask what happened if it's truly a mystery that must be solved. If it was human error, quietly move on.