This post highlights many of the reasons why I’ve chosen to just stick with a standard, widely-used desktop OS (macOS in my case, but could easily be Windows or some other OS like Fedora), and use almost all the default settings, adapting to the defaults over the years. Would the tiny incremental gain from tweaking one or two specific settings to my perfect liking save me anywhere near the amount of time, happiness,…
I really have to hard disagree on this.
Would letting someone else choose the defaults for me save me more time (and frustration!) considering that I'd have to adapt, again and again, every time those defaults change, or would it be better to just pay that one-time cost of setting up things how I like it, forgetting about it, and not having to worry about the whole environment changing underneath me?
Sorry, but I really don't understand your argument here. How many times did the UI of macOS change? How many times did the Windows' UI change? How many times did the Android's UI change for no good reason? (Like, e.g. it seems that for virtually every new major version they completely redesign the camera app.)
In what way is it less effort to constantly keep adapting to those seemingly arbitrary changes compared to just setting it up yourself once, and then forgetting about it?
I just don't get it.
I've set up my environment many years ago, and I haven't really significantly tweaked anything since. It works the same way as it used to. Still the same tiling window manager, still the same apps, and everything works just as I'd like it. It's great. And I don't have to waste my time dealing with all of the UI churn that happens all around.