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The big one is 175 billion parameters. With your hardware's usual 32 bit floats, that's a 700GB model. You won't be using the big one for a while.
This one uses FP16, so you just need to have a server with >350GB of RAM. 512GB of DDR4 would set you back around two grand. A total cost of a server for this would probably be under $5k. Comparable to a good gaming rig.
It'll take some work, but I think I can come up with something clever to dump samples on a TPUv2-8. i.e. the free one that comes with Colab.
Realistically, I don't think OpenAI will release the model. Why would they? And I'm not sure they'd dare use "it might be dangerous" as an excuse.