In expensive neighborhoods there are good connections from neighbors, but right now - and I have no way to quantify this - it seems like that doesn't apply to places that now become expensive. People with connections are just part of a different generation and live in already wealthy neighborhoods.
The up and coming trendy neighborhood don't have the connected's trust fund children nor a bunch of VCs. Only airbnb speculators, transient corporate housing and some TikTok influencers chasing status.
Everyone has been resigned to imagining their dreams of certain zip codes, and just doing something else that happens to be way more practical. If you actually get into those zip codes, nobody else is there.
So doing extra things for the goal of keeping up against all odds seems to be a fools errand, for housing location at least. Other fun things you can do with your net worth.