Earlier quoted context omitted.
https://archive.org/details/in.ernet.dli.2015.120831/page/n6... As you can see on that page, here is a definition of the word rape: 1. trans. to take (a thing) by force. In my usage, I was using it as the state government of CA, taking (part of) my severance by force. I don't see any issue with the usage.
I see an issue. You said Ca “raped” _you_, not your money. You meant it in a metaphorical sexual sense and now you’re rationalizing your insensitivity.
His usage is technically correct. e.g. if you rape a forest you're taking the trees from the forest. He owns the money, the forest owns the trees, a person owns her body.