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There is another point too, which also to some extend goes against your point—that we model epidemiology in standard ways, and that in order to use those standard ways we need the parameters in the set of differential equations. And these do make predictions based on the equilibria. I am not saying they solve everything, but they are routinely used to for example calculate how many people need to be vaccinated to sto…
R_0 changes as people change their behavior. It is not one constant common to all places and times with virus. Edit: people down voting this, please look at definition and those papers. R_0 does changes.
R0 is assumed to be a constant so that the math / models work. But it really changes dramatically in practice. Maybe someone else will eventually make a model where the constant is more... constant. But until then, we will continue to use this model.