Can I get reality checks here from some people who actually attended Ivy-league schools? The author's description of Yale doesn't match my experience with MIT very well, but of course, MIT isn't one of the Ivies.
I don't relate much to the article, but I might be atypical. I never understood what the big deal the Ivy was about. Some random points:
1. There are plenty of insanely smart people who don't take the "standard" career paths. They are the kind that take twice as many classes as everyone else and set the curves in all of them; the school got lucky to have them there. It's hard to not see them working on world-changing problems.
2. There are some people from truly underprivileged backgrounds, who are there by sheer hard work and ability. I met someone like this, who refused to play by the system's rules, and paid dearly because he didn't have the financial cushion. Unfortunately, after he recovered he no longer seems to want to take risks.
3. Classism exists before you enter the gates. There are a large number of students from prep-schools, who carry a whole subculture with them. I sense a kind of disdain from their eyes, and have never gone beyond small talk.
4. The "arrived" appears subtly. There are jokes about neighboring "safety" schools, and even the engineering school (which is easier to get into than the arts). The school of arts is always masturbating to its own name but the engineers don't ever seem to care.
5. I had some friends who were really proud to be there and embodied the school spirit. One time I said, "I find something lacking intellectually in the spirit of [the school]," which was taken with knee-jerk offense.
Without having other places to compare to, I'd say Ivy is some overrated and incomprehensible bullshit marketing. Oh, the computer labs and libraries were nice, but big deal.