> Apache Druid is supposed to be very mature, but also very difficult to set up and manage
I wouldn't be surprised if this inverted at large scale (say 30+ machines). Druid data servers are rebalanced automatically; if you're on AWS and decide to scale up by adding a new data server, it will automatically load its assigned subset of data from S3. If AWS kills one of your data servers, then other data servers will automatically load from S3 some of the data that server used to carry, in order to reach the desired replication factor again.
Last time I checked ClickHouse had no automatic rebalancing at all, which sounds horrendous unless you're running at very small scale or willing to have people babysit it. I haven't operated ClickHouse at large scale though, so if I'm wrong I'd be happy to hear how people manage ordinary tasks like scaling up and down, replacing dead instances, changing instance types to adjust CPU/mem/disk, etc... with let's say a 100 TB compressed dataset.
Another difference is that Druid can index all dimensions. So if you plan to run queries with filters that only match a small fraction of rows, then Druid can be faster than ClickHouse. Conversely, if your queries have filters that match many rows, then ClickHouse will be faster because it has higher raw scan speed. (At least that was the case about a year ago. Since then, Druid has added vectorized aggregation, which I haven't benchmarked, but I'd bet that ClickHouse is still faster at doing full table scans.)
IMO these 2 things are the main elements to think about when choosing between ClickHouse and Druid.