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Wherein my Kiss was Rejected

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Re: Wherein my Kiss was Rejected

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I'm pretty sure this is bad advice. I say this as someone who has irresistible urges to "shake things up" when I'm going through rough patches. In fact, I think that desire is really common. I bet that's why this guy did all that stuff; he had the urge to do crazy things. But just because it's typical to have the urge to do crazy things when you're in a rough spot doesn't mean that you should do them, or that it will…

Everything on this list is harmless. You're taking it way too seriously.

He's just saying that a good way out of a rut is to "mix it up" a little, do things you don't usually do. It's good advice, and can make stressful things not seem so important and final.

Re: Wherein my Kiss was Rejected

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Last month I actually tried 26-hour days, shifting westwards at the rate of 2 timezones/day. Whenever someone asked me how I was or what time it was, I would give them the name of a country whose timezone I was currently on. Up until now, I was certain that I had invented the concept myself.

Re: Wherein my Kiss was Rejected

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Psychotherapy, which the author mentions in passing, is itself a pretty good suggestion in the "mixing things up" category. When we're looking for meaningful change, the truth is that a little bit of outside feedback and guidance is often what is needed the most to affect it. Even intelligent people tend to strongly gravitate to what is comfortable when left to their own devices.

Some people ask me why I still go to therapy despite my life generally being pretty awesome right now. My response tends to be: exactly.
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