Earlier quoted context omitted.
I worked on a microservices practice (with over 400 microservices by the time I left) where it definitely was not a "distributed monolith". I could change all kinds of individual services that did not require changes to other services.
I think monoliths can be written the same way such that you can change one module without changing the others. Microservices enforce that best practice.
A core skill problems on a team that would prevent building a maintainable monolith do not go away because you've added more things for them to manage.